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Alignment, Authentic Leadership, Boundaries, IFS Coaching, Life Coaching, List, Managing Energy, Mindset and Thinking, Ordinary Courage, Personal Growth, Recovering Overachiever, Recovering People Pleaser, Self Leadership, Self Love Series, Soul-Full Living, Wild Edges of Being Human

The Problem with “BE LOVE” for Recovering People Pleasers

February 8, 2023

The Problem with “BE LOVE” for Recovering People Pleasers   Photos: The ACA Bill of Rights. The photos are of my handwritten version, and you can find the pdf version on the ACA website. The second photo is my visual reminder to be clear on… [read more]

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Alignment, Authentic Leadership, Coaching, Creative Practice, Inner Whisper, Leadership, Managing Energy, Recovering Overachiever, Releasing Resistance, Self Compassion, Self Leadership, Small Biz Support

Trust Your Practices and Process over the Man Made Dates

January 19, 2023

I can trust practices and processes. When I try to shove them into a calendar or deadline – the processes and practices get detoured by “I’m doing it wrong.” I have nurturing practices -that I KNOW bring me to clarity, confidence, and action. I have… [read more]

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Achievement and Success, Alignment, Art, Authentic Leadership, Behind the Curtain, Care of the Soul, Coaching, Compassionate Inquiry, Creative Practice, Emotions, Follow & Feel Your Heart, IFS Coaching, Internal Family Systems Coaching, Leadership, Life Coaching, Managing Energy, Mindset and Thinking, Money, Ordinary Courage, Personal, Personal Growth, Purpose, Recovering Overachiever, Releasing Resistance

Recovering Overachiever Complete

December 30, 2022

Yes, it’s the time of year when I think about what I desire for the year ahead. And the slowness and space help me FEEL and notice my cravings (the deeper under the “don’t feel” cravings)…. and my feelings actually give me so much information…. [read more]

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Achievement and Success, Alignment, Biz Secrets, Coaching, IFS Coaching, Leadership, Managing Energy, Mindset and Thinking, Online Business, Self Leadership, Small Biz Support, Soul-Full Success, Spiritual Business

Monday Morning Check In: BEING

November 14, 2022

Happy Monday. Let’s start in the upper left section today. This assumes your nervous system is in a calm and regulated state. If not, then that becomes priority #1. Nervous system regulation is primary. From that space, we can be aware and imagine our 𝗕𝗘𝗜𝗡𝗚… [read more]

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Authentic Leadership, Behind the Curtain, Care of the Soul, Emotions, Follow & Feel Your Heart, HEART, Life, Managing Energy, Mindset and Thinking

Allow the Fallow: Your Struggle is Valid.

October 19, 2022

2022 has been a year of difficult events and circumstances. A multi-layered shit sandwich for sure. Do you know what I’m most proud of? Allowing myself to suffer, feel uncomfortable, and be “a mess.”   I am more alive because I did not contain myself… [read more]

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Pick Your Creative Practice Back Up

October 17, 2022

For some reason, I had a block in my head that made me believe my “intuitive painting” and “expressive arts” were only done with acrylic or tempura paints.   I don’t know what fucking planet I was on, but – this glorious practice can be… [read more]

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Anxiety, Authentic Leadership, Behind the Curtain, Compassionate Inquiry, Conversations, Managing Energy, Mindset and Thinking, Ordinary Courage, Personal Growth, Releasing Resistance, Renewal, Sacred Journeys, Self Leadership, The Body Always Knows

I Believe You.

October 13, 2022

Today is a new day. Yesterday was low, low, low….. grateful for my compassionate friend Heather and compassionate nurse Bethany. I spent half the day at the Heart Hospital having some tests (planned, not an emergency).   Here’s what I noticed about being in the… [read more]

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Alignment, Authentic Leadership, Better Life Better Work Show, Coaching, Conversations, Emotions, Life, Life Coaching, Managing Energy, Meditation, Personal, Personal Growth, Podcast, Renewal

How to Create Calm & Happy

August 21, 2022

I would like to have calm and happy. Calm is one of my gateway, entry ways, of cultivating self energy, of cultivating source energy & of cultivating presence. As many of you know, but I’m gonna go ahead and repeat over and over and over… [read more]

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𝐄𝐦𝐨𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐧 𝐄𝐦𝐨𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐛𝐥𝐞𝐦𝐬 𝐭𝐨 𝐛𝐞 𝐟𝐢𝐱𝐞𝐝 𝐨𝐫 𝐚𝐯𝐨𝐢𝐝𝐞𝐝—they’re messages from different parts of you. Rather than labeling them as good or bad, approach them with curiosity. Each emotion is a part of your system trying to communicate something important about your needs. By listening with empathy to these parts, you deepen your understanding of yourself and build emotional intelligence. This practice of compassionate inquiry helps you strengthen your connection to your internal experience and empowers you to respond in a way that aligns with your true Self.
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Overthink Much? I have this mental ideal that is Overthink Much?

I have this mental ideal that is embedded in my brain that I would be able to wake up and move forward with all my intentions.  I can see the clear direction and simple steps. I can envision all the "results" and the relief I make up those results would bring. 

One of the things I'm teaching myself to do - is try to write more from a professional voice for you instead of blab in inner processing out on this little white pop-up box. 

How's that working, Alli?

Buahahahah.... all my sweet and striving little parts trying to hold my life closely to that ideal.  I sense the squirm of these parts in my body even when my "thinking" is clear.

I now know this to be a signal for me to slow down and meet those parts with calm and curiosity. First, I must get past one of my sneakiest and most powerful parts—my "awareness" part. This is not Awareness from my core self. 
In IFS - we call these self-like parts. The distinction is that the awareness part carries the burden and tone of "You're doing it wrong."

I asked my clients to notice the part of them that is "mindful and self-aware." What are the words that the voice uses? What is its tone? 

Is it SELF-calm and compassionate, deeply connected? Or is it cognitive and managerial with a motive? 

OOOOF...sending sweet love and compassion to all my thinking, overthinking, and trying-to-get-it-right-for-some-imaginaryideal-parts, and to yours. 

These parts need our somatic connection and attunement. They do not need judgment and alienation. They are scared and holding ages of fear and pain. 

Hello, inner managers, and judgers, and thinkers.  I see you.  I am here for you.  I see your skills.  You have done nothing wrong.  No matter what you feel, you deserve more love, not less.  Let's just breathe together, and then you can share your fears and concerns.  I am here for you.  I will not leave you.
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In the IFS community, we call triggers "trailheads In the IFS community, we call triggers "trailheads" or say, "This part of me is really activated." Identifying and caring for emotionally reactive parts gives us the opportunity to respond with intention rather than impulsively. By practicing emotional regulation and internal partswork, you can create space between stimulus and response, allowing for more thoughtful and grounded decision-making.
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For me, it was the fear I would disintegrate and b For me, it was the fear I would disintegrate and be insignificant.  For many, it's attached to conditional love.  IFS coaching helped me in places typical coaching couldn't.  It helped me compassionately understand and connect with these parts - and ya know what? They began to relax, build trust, and step back, leaving space for my natural creativity, grounded confidence, and clarity to lead in my work & life.  This is available to you.  #ifscoaching
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