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Alignment, Authentic Leadership, Care of the Soul, Compassionate Inquiry, Creative Practice, Deconstructing Systems, HEART, IFS Coaching, journal, Managing Energy, Meditation, Nourishing Practices - Habits, Personal, Personal Growth, Practice, Renewal, Sacred Journeys, Self Compassion, Self Leadership

Allowing the Space for Heart Coherence

May 30, 2023

  Tone: deep contentment, mostly.   There’s an extra space this morning.   After the Soulies closing ceremony (my primary coaching work container over the last 7 years), and after deleting almost ALL of my old fb groups (one for every group program I’ve done… [read more]

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Breath is your BFF, Care of the Soul, Compassionate Inquiry, Creative Practice, IFS Coaching, Inner Whisper, Internal Family Systems, Internal Family Systems Coaching, Love, Meditation, Personal, Self Compassion, Self Leadership, Soul-Full Living, Unarmored

Personal development and coaching can be so fuckeryish.

March 28, 2023

Personal development and coaching can be so fuckeryish. Here’s my example this morning:   I start to journal… “what if XYZ was possible… “ and then I get smacked in the head with, “but love what is.”   Well, which is it? Love what is… [read more]

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Creative Practice, Expressive Arts, Inner Whisper, Life Coaching, Managing Energy, Meditation, Ordinary Courage, Personal, Releasing Resistance, Self Compassion, Self Leadership, Soul-Full Living

Pick Your Creative Practice Back Up

October 17, 2022

For some reason, I had a block in my head that made me believe my β€œintuitive painting” and β€œexpressive arts” were only done with acrylic or tempura paints.   I don’t know what fucking planet I was on, but – this glorious practice can be… [read more]

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Alignment, Authentic Leadership, Better Life Better Work Show, Coaching, Conversations, Emotions, Life, Life Coaching, Managing Energy, Meditation, Personal, Personal Growth, Podcast, Renewal

How to Create Calm & Happy

August 21, 2022

I would like to have calm and happy. Calm is one of my gateway, entry ways, of cultivating self energy, of cultivating source energy & of cultivating presence. As many of you know, but I’m gonna go ahead and repeat over and over and over… [read more]

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3 Questions for Powerful Self Reflection

September 22, 2019

  Three powerful questions for self-reflection. I have three questions to help you with what I’m calling “power up” today. I had an interesting experience. This week, I have recommitted to my practice of meditation and meditating on my pouf without any devices nearby, so… [read more]

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Shutting My Soul Down & a Meditation on RememBEring

August 11, 2019

  What happens to us…. that causes us to bury our truth deep inside?  How is it that along this way in life we let a little of our true selves go here…. and a little more there? Our subconscious and nervous system are so… [read more]

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3rd Chakra Coffee and Cards: Balance your Personal Power

November 15, 2016

3rd Chakra Coffee and Cards: Balance your Personal Power Connect on Facebook Share Free Share Your Heart Show Your Work Facebook Community Soulies Self-Leadership Coaching Membership

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Alignment, Energetic Work, Everyday Magic, FB Live, Follow & Feel Your Heart, Inner Whisper, Managing Energy, Meditation, Mindset and Thinking, Uncategorized

the one thing you do to Eff your life up + Coffee & cards 10/4/16

October 4, 2016

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𝐄𝐦𝐨𝐭𝐒𝐨𝐧𝐬 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐧 𝐄𝐦𝐨𝐭𝐒𝐨𝐧𝐬 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐛π₯𝐞𝐦𝐬 𝐭𝐨 π›πž 𝐟𝐒𝐱𝐞𝐝 𝐨𝐫 πšπ―π¨π’ππžπβ€”they’re messages from different parts of you. Rather than labeling them as good or bad, approach them with curiosity. Each emotion is a part of your system trying to communicate something important about your needs. By listening with empathy to these parts, you deepen your understanding of yourself and build emotional intelligence. This practice of compassionate inquiry helps you strengthen your connection to your internal experience and empowers you to respond in a way that aligns with your true Self.
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Overthink Much? I have this mental ideal that is Overthink Much?

I have this mental ideal that is embedded in my brain that I would be able to wake up and move forward with all my intentions.  I can see the clear direction and simple steps. I can envision all the "results" and the relief I make up those results would bring. 

One of the things I'm teaching myself to do - is try to write more from a professional voice for you instead of blab in inner processing out on this little white pop-up box. 

How's that working, Alli?

Buahahahah.... all my sweet and striving little parts trying to hold my life closely to that ideal.  I sense the squirm of these parts in my body even when my "thinking" is clear.

I now know this to be a signal for me to slow down and meet those parts with calm and curiosity. First, I must get past one of my sneakiest and most powerful partsβ€”my "awareness" part. This is not Awareness from my core self. 
In IFS - we call these self-like parts. The distinction is that the awareness part carries the burden and tone of "You're doing it wrong."

I asked my clients to notice the part of them that is "mindful and self-aware." What are the words that the voice uses? What is its tone? 

Is it SELF-calm and compassionate, deeply connected? Or is it cognitive and managerial with a motive? 

OOOOF...sending sweet love and compassion to all my thinking, overthinking, and trying-to-get-it-right-for-some-imaginaryideal-parts, and to yours. 

These parts need our somatic connection and attunement. They do not need judgment and alienation. They are scared and holding ages of fear and pain. 

Hello, inner managers, and judgers, and thinkers.  I see you.  I am here for you.  I see your skills.  You have done nothing wrong.  No matter what you feel, you deserve more love, not less.  Let's just breathe together, and then you can share your fears and concerns.  I am here for you.  I will not leave you.
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In the IFS community, we call triggers "trailheads In the IFS community, we call triggers "trailheads" or say, "This part of me is really activated." Identifying and caring for emotionally reactive parts gives us the opportunity to respond with intention rather than impulsively. By practicing emotional regulation and internal partswork, you can create space between stimulus and response, allowing for more thoughtful and grounded decision-making.
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For me, it was the fear I would disintegrate and b For me, it was the fear I would disintegrate and be insignificant.  For many, it's attached to conditional love.  IFS coaching helped me in places typical coaching couldn't.  It helped me compassionately understand and connect with these parts - and ya know what? They began to relax, build trust, and step back, leaving space for my natural creativity, grounded confidence, and clarity to lead in my work & life.  This is available to you.  #ifscoaching
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