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A visual of the Internal Family Systems Model with Self, Managers, Firefighters ,and Exiles drawn in pen and watercolor by allison crow.
Internal Family Systems, Internal Family Systems Coaching, Leadership, Life Coaching, Online Business, Self Leadership, Small Biz Support

6 Reasons I Use Internal Family Systems With My Coaching Clients

August 1, 2023

6 Reasons I Use Internal Family Systems With My Coaching Clients   IFS – Internal Family Systems – is a SELF Leadership tool I use in my coaching practice.   Here Six reasons I have IFS found helpful for me and my coaching clients: The IFS… [read more]

by allisoncrow 
Alignment, Authentic Leadership, IFS Coaching, Internal Family Systems, Internal Family Systems Coaching, Mindset and Thinking, Online Business, Personal, Recovering People Pleaser, Releasing Resistance, Self Leadership

Roy Fucking Kent and Oscar the Grouch – My Muses

April 13, 2023

I’ve been experimenting with something entirely new on behalf of ALL my parts. Especially the ones I’ve suppressed most of my life. I always imagined that I was a bit like Ted Lasso- but I think the real me is more Roy Fucking Kent.  β€¦ [read more]

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Authentic Leadership, Behind the Curtain, Biz Secrets, Coaching, Conversations, Leadership, Life, Life Coaching, Marketing Tips, Mindset and Thinking, Online Business, Personal, Personal Growth, Podcast, ShareYourHeartShowYourWork, Wild Edges of Being Human

Business Check: Market Update & Tips To Support You

April 2, 2023

I’m Allison Crow and we are interrupting your often frequently deep and emotional philosophical personal development contact for a business check. This is a podcast for business owners. Welcome to those who aren’t business owners. If you listen, that’s fun! I’m gonna be discussing what… [read more]

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Achievement and Success, Alignment, Authentic Leadership, Behind the Curtain, Biz Secrets, Coaching, Inner Whisper, Internal Family Systems Coaching, Life Coaching, Mindset and Thinking, My Mentors, Online Business, Recovering Overachiever, Releasing Resistance, Remember, Small Biz Support, Soul-Full Success, Wild Edges of Being Human

Fuck the Coaching Industry

December 14, 2022

My mind was so full of inspiration this morning. She wanted to go in about 17 different directions, listen to two different podcasts and one audiobook, and write 27 things for you.   Happy Mind, full of intention, running a bit fast.   Slow down,… [read more]

by allisoncrow 
Achievement and Success, Behind the Curtain, Biz Secrets, Creative Practice, Everyday Magic, IFS Coaching, Internal Family Systems Coaching, Leadership, Money, Online Business, Personal Growth, Prosperity, Prosperous Coach, Sacred Journeys, ShareYourHeartShowYourWork, Small Biz Support, Soul-Full Success

How did I do it? Secrets to Making Your Dreams Happen.

December 1, 2022

How Did I Do It? Don’t let the photo fool you:   This was a big year for me. 3 MAJOR milestones accomplished.   In May, my pool was built- If you know me, this was my dream – not a family dream – so… [read more]

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Chart with Being attributes on the left - Cultivate, Being, Resilience, Ownership, and Leading Emotions with Compassion on the Left. Doing aspects of a business - Marketing, Sales, Delivery, Operations on the Right. White chart with watercolor blue edge and yellow watercolor labels. ,
Achievement and Success, Alignment, Biz Secrets, Coaching, IFS Coaching, Leadership, Managing Energy, Mindset and Thinking, Online Business, Self Leadership, Small Biz Support, Soul-Full Success, Spiritual Business

Monday Morning Check In: BEING

November 14, 2022

Happy Monday. Let’s start in the upper left section today. This assumes your nervous system is in a calm and regulated state. If not, then that becomes priority #1. Nervous system regulation is primary. From that space, we can be aware and imagine our π—•π—˜π—œπ—‘π—šβ€¦ [read more]

by allisoncrow 
Achievement and Success, Alignment, Authentic Leadership, Behind the Curtain, Leadership, Online Business, Personal Growth, Recovering Overachiever, Releasing Resistance, Self Leadership, Small Biz Support, Soul-Full Living, Soul-Full Success

My Coach Told Me I Was Settling

June 8, 2022

  In my dreams, I’m not ever in a fancy hotel or a swanky luxury location. I’m certainly not in a formal dress and heels. Never in my real dreams did I dream of wealth the way it is sold to me. Never in my… [read more]

by allisoncrow 
Achievement and Success, Behind the Curtain, Biz Secrets, Coaching, FB Live, Online Business, ShareYourHeartShowYourWork, Small Biz Support, Social Media, Soul-Full Success, Video

#155: How to Create Content Gold Share Your Heart Show Your Work Style

November 18, 2021

Episode 155 of the Better Life Better Work show and I have a heart-centered business system and tool for you today. Grab a notebook and get ready to write a few things down. Connect on Facebook Share Free Share Your Heart Show Your Work Facebook… [read more]

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𝐄𝐦𝐨𝐭𝐒𝐨𝐧𝐬 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐧 𝐄𝐦𝐨𝐭𝐒𝐨𝐧𝐬 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐛π₯𝐞𝐦𝐬 𝐭𝐨 π›πž 𝐟𝐒𝐱𝐞𝐝 𝐨𝐫 πšπ―π¨π’ππžπβ€”they’re messages from different parts of you. Rather than labeling them as good or bad, approach them with curiosity. Each emotion is a part of your system trying to communicate something important about your needs. By listening with empathy to these parts, you deepen your understanding of yourself and build emotional intelligence. This practice of compassionate inquiry helps you strengthen your connection to your internal experience and empowers you to respond in a way that aligns with your true Self.
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Overthink Much? I have this mental ideal that is Overthink Much?

I have this mental ideal that is embedded in my brain that I would be able to wake up and move forward with all my intentions.  I can see the clear direction and simple steps. I can envision all the "results" and the relief I make up those results would bring. 

One of the things I'm teaching myself to do - is try to write more from a professional voice for you instead of blab in inner processing out on this little white pop-up box. 

How's that working, Alli?

Buahahahah.... all my sweet and striving little parts trying to hold my life closely to that ideal.  I sense the squirm of these parts in my body even when my "thinking" is clear.

I now know this to be a signal for me to slow down and meet those parts with calm and curiosity. First, I must get past one of my sneakiest and most powerful partsβ€”my "awareness" part. This is not Awareness from my core self. 
In IFS - we call these self-like parts. The distinction is that the awareness part carries the burden and tone of "You're doing it wrong."

I asked my clients to notice the part of them that is "mindful and self-aware." What are the words that the voice uses? What is its tone? 

Is it SELF-calm and compassionate, deeply connected? Or is it cognitive and managerial with a motive? 

OOOOF...sending sweet love and compassion to all my thinking, overthinking, and trying-to-get-it-right-for-some-imaginaryideal-parts, and to yours. 

These parts need our somatic connection and attunement. They do not need judgment and alienation. They are scared and holding ages of fear and pain. 

Hello, inner managers, and judgers, and thinkers.  I see you.  I am here for you.  I see your skills.  You have done nothing wrong.  No matter what you feel, you deserve more love, not less.  Let's just breathe together, and then you can share your fears and concerns.  I am here for you.  I will not leave you.
This sweet girl. Only a few taco Tuesday’s left This sweet girl. Only a few taco Tuesday’s left before they move across the state.
In the IFS community, we call triggers "trailheads In the IFS community, we call triggers "trailheads" or say, "This part of me is really activated." Identifying and caring for emotionally reactive parts gives us the opportunity to respond with intention rather than impulsively. By practicing emotional regulation and internal partswork, you can create space between stimulus and response, allowing for more thoughtful and grounded decision-making.
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For me, it was the fear I would disintegrate and b For me, it was the fear I would disintegrate and be insignificant.  For many, it's attached to conditional love.  IFS coaching helped me in places typical coaching couldn't.  It helped me compassionately understand and connect with these parts - and ya know what? They began to relax, build trust, and step back, leaving space for my natural creativity, grounded confidence, and clarity to lead in my work & life.  This is available to you.  #ifscoaching
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