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Care of the Soul, Emotions, Midlife, Mindset and Thinking, Nourishing Practices - Habits, Personal Growth, Releasing Resistance, Self Compassion, Self Leadership, Self Trust, Uncategorized

Midlife Can Cause Your Confidence to Wobble: Here’s Why and What to Do About It

November 26, 2024

Feeling Like Youโ€™ve Lost Your Confidence in Midlife? It can be discombobulating. Hereโ€™s Whyโ€”and What to Do About It. Itโ€™s not uncommon to feel a loss of confidence, especially during times of transition, change, or stress. What we call “confidence” in the past was often… [read more]

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Authentic Leadership, Creative Living, Creative Practice, Deconstructing Systems, Leadership, My Mentors, Recovering People Pleaser, Self Leadership, Self Trust

Do your Leaders Invite You to Self Trust Like Rick Rubin (And Me)

August 22, 2024

SELF- Trust:   As a coach- my clients often hear me say:   You can accept, modify, or reject Iโ€™ll lay this idea/suggestion on the table, and you can pick it up or leave it there. I am not the boss of you. I believe… [read more]

by allisoncrow 
A hand drawn image of a stick figure with a yellow heart and a colorful watercolor thoughtbubble with at least 50 different and unrealated words representing all the things I overthink ab out.
Coaching, IFS Coaching, Internal Family Systems Coaching, Self Leadership

Crafting Authentic Confidence: Working With Overthinking Parts

May 16, 2024

Who are my fellow humans with strong and vocal Overthinking Parts?  (I capitalize these to represent the personification of these parts of us).  Overthinking is a conversation with oneself that too often goes unmonitored. As those thoughts can run amok, they can activate even more… [read more]

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Authentic Leadership, Deconstructing Systems, IFS Coaching, Internal Family Systems, Internal Family Systems Coaching, Self Leadership, Self Trust

Unveiling the Invisible Outside and Inside: Understanding Systems and Coping Mechanisms

April 22, 2024

  In the intricate tapestry of our lives, there exists a phenomenon often overlooked but profoundly influential โ€“ invisible systems. Like silent puppeteers, these systems shape our thoughts, behaviors, and interactions without us even realizing their presence. And without even realizing it, we develop coping… [read more]

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The more I meet myself the less I want to punch people in the face" hand written on a rainbow watercolor background and signed by Allison Crow.
Authentic Leadership, Compassionate Inquiry, Emotions, IFS Coaching, Internal Family Systems Coaching, Personal Growth, Self Leadership, Unarmored, Wild Edges of Being Human

Punching People In The Face

April 21, 2024

The more I meet myself (and my parts), the less I want to punch other people in the face.   Most of us are conditioned to despise, fear, and suppress โ€œnegative emotions.โ€ I donโ€™t believe that any emotions are negative. I believe they have wisdom… [read more]

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The words meet yourself, listen to yourself, hear yourself, witness and hold your most tender parts. This connection is a sacred unburdening to lightness, and to greater self-trust, confidence, and courage over a red-toned love painting by Allison Crow
Emotions, Recovering People Pleaser, Self Leadership, Self Trust

SELF-Trust Takes Time

April 15, 2024

Self-trust takes time; it is a practice, not an event.  Navigating self-trust isnโ€™t always easy. It’s about finding your footing amidst the pressures of fitting into the molds the world shapes for usโ€”often at the expense of our authenticity. Letโ€™s talk people-pleasing. It’s a tune… [read more]

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Podcast Cover Art for Episode 212: Insights from Reblooming my business. Allison with a background of texas purple mountain laurel blooms.
Authentic Leadership, Coaching, Conversations, Leadership, Life, Life Coaching, Mindset and Thinking, Money, Personal, Personal Growth, Podcast, Self Leadership, Wild Edges of Being Human

Insights From Re-Blooming My Business

March 11, 2024

Allison shares her personal journey of reinventing herself and her business, discussing her struggles, coping mechanisms, and the need for genuine connections. She emphasizes the importance of understanding one’s needs and cycles, challenging toxic individualism, and finding what works authentically for oneself in business and… [read more]

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Allison Holding up a sticker that says Stop Trying to NOT Be HUMAN. This image also has the title of episode 210 Procrastination or Parts: The Mind Fu&K of Starting Again.
Authentic Leadership, Boundaries, Coaching, Conversations, Leadership, Life, Life Coaching, Personal, Personal Growth, Podcast, Self Leadership, Unarmored, Wild Edges of Being Human

Procrastination or Parts: The Mind Fu&k of Starting Again

February 11, 2024

Yikes – Is it Procrastination or Parts- I’m jumping back into making podcast episodes for you!  I’m just going to allow myself to be imperfect in getting back into the routine I love creating content for y’all  I’ve always loved creating content for y’all and… [read more]

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๐Ÿ’› Finding Home in the Wild Edges of Being Human

๐„๐ฆ๐จ๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ ๐š๐ซ๐ž ๐ง ๐„๐ฆ๐จ๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ ๐š๐ซ๐ž ๐ง๐จ๐ญ ๐ฉ๐ซ๐จ๐›๐ฅ๐ž๐ฆ๐ฌ ๐ญ๐จ ๐›๐ž ๐Ÿ๐ข๐ฑ๐ž๐ ๐จ๐ซ ๐š๐ฏ๐จ๐ข๐๐ž๐โ€”theyโ€™re messages from different parts of you. Rather than labeling them as good or bad, approach them with curiosity. Each emotion is a part of your system trying to communicate something important about your needs. By listening with empathy to these parts, you deepen your understanding of yourself and build emotional intelligence. This practice of compassionate inquiry helps you strengthen your connection to your internal experience and empowers you to respond in a way that aligns with your true Self.
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Overthink Much? I have this mental ideal that is Overthink Much?

I have this mental ideal that is embedded in my brain that I would be able to wake up and move forward with all my intentions.  I can see the clear direction and simple steps. I can envision all the "results" and the relief I make up those results would bring. 

One of the things I'm teaching myself to do - is try to write more from a professional voice for you instead of blab in inner processing out on this little white pop-up box. 

How's that working, Alli?

Buahahahah.... all my sweet and striving little parts trying to hold my life closely to that ideal.  I sense the squirm of these parts in my body even when my "thinking" is clear.

I now know this to be a signal for me to slow down and meet those parts with calm and curiosity. First, I must get past one of my sneakiest and most powerful partsโ€”my "awareness" part. This is not Awareness from my core self. 
In IFS - we call these self-like parts. The distinction is that the awareness part carries the burden and tone of "You're doing it wrong."

I asked my clients to notice the part of them that is "mindful and self-aware." What are the words that the voice uses? What is its tone? 

Is it SELF-calm and compassionate, deeply connected? Or is it cognitive and managerial with a motive? 

OOOOF...sending sweet love and compassion to all my thinking, overthinking, and trying-to-get-it-right-for-some-imaginaryideal-parts, and to yours. 

These parts need our somatic connection and attunement. They do not need judgment and alienation. They are scared and holding ages of fear and pain. 

Hello, inner managers, and judgers, and thinkers.  I see you.  I am here for you.  I see your skills.  You have done nothing wrong.  No matter what you feel, you deserve more love, not less.  Let's just breathe together, and then you can share your fears and concerns.  I am here for you.  I will not leave you.
This sweet girl. Only a few taco Tuesdayโ€™s left This sweet girl. Only a few taco Tuesdayโ€™s left before they move across the state.
In the IFS community, we call triggers "trailheads In the IFS community, we call triggers "trailheads" or say, "This part of me is really activated." Identifying and caring for emotionally reactive parts gives us the opportunity to respond with intention rather than impulsively. By practicing emotional regulation and internal partswork, you can create space between stimulus and response, allowing for more thoughtful and grounded decision-making.
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For me, it was the fear I would disintegrate and b For me, it was the fear I would disintegrate and be insignificant.  For many, it's attached to conditional love.  IFS coaching helped me in places typical coaching couldn't.  It helped me compassionately understand and connect with these parts - and ya know what? They began to relax, build trust, and step back, leaving space for my natural creativity, grounded confidence, and clarity to lead in my work & life.  This is available to you.  #ifscoaching
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