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Alignment, Authentic Leadership, Boundaries, IFS Coaching, Life Coaching, List, Managing Energy, Mindset and Thinking, Ordinary Courage, Personal Growth, Recovering Overachiever, Recovering People Pleaser, Self Leadership, Self Love Series, Soul-Full Living, Wild Edges of Being Human

The Problem with “BE LOVE” for Recovering People Pleasers

February 8, 2023

The Problem with “BE LOVE” for Recovering People Pleasers   Photos: The ACA Bill of Rights. The photos are of my handwritten version, and you can find the pdf version on the ACA website. The second photo is my visual reminder to be clear on… [read more]

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Alignment, Anxiety, Better Life Better Work Show, Breath is your BFF, Everyday Magic, Love, Mindset and Thinking, My Mentors, Podcast, Sacred Journeys, Self Love Series, Spiritual Business, Spirituality

BLBW Episode 31: The Equivalent of a Free Hug

August 15, 2018

I’ve been totally in to and reading Matt Kahn’s book, ‘Whatever Arises, Love That‘ the last few months.  And some of the mantras and healing prayers there not only blow my mind but have truly transformed my life by lifting curses and spells of my… [read more]

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Alignment, Anxiety, FB Live, Life Coaching, Mindset and Thinking, My Mentors, Personal, Personal Growth, Renewal, Self Love Series

Just for YOU ~ A Reading from Whatever Arises, Love That.

July 27, 2018

A Reading from Whatever Arises Love That. Love for your heart and mine.         Connect on Facebook Share Free Share Your Heart Show Your Work Facebook Community Soulies Self-Leadership Coaching Membership

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Coaching, Conversations, FB Live, Life Coaching, Mindset and Thinking, Personal Growth, Releasing Resistance, Self Love Series, Uncategorized

Coffee & Conversation – How to Deal With The Past

December 11, 2016

Coffee & Conversation – How to deal with the past and other ramblings Connect on Facebook Share Free Share Your Heart Show Your Work Facebook Community Soulies Self-Leadership Coaching Membership

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Alignment, Depression, Energetic Work, Follow & Feel Your Heart, HEART, Life Coaching, Mindset and Thinking, Ordinary Courage, Personal, Personal Growth, Remember, Self Love Series, Soul-Full Living, Soul-Work, Uncategorized

How I Relieved My Severe Depression

November 14, 2016

I’ve spent most of 2016 in the deep recesses of my heart. I recently had to admit, my depression was back. It has been messy, uncomfortable, painful – I’ve squirmed and wrestled. I’ve cried more tears and experienced more deep depression and anxiety than I… [read more]

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Personal, Self Love Series, Uncategorized, Video

Skincare & Both Shocking & Sweet Beauty Secrets for this L…

September 21, 2016

The skin care routine, my biggest and most affordable SECRET beauty tip revealed – it will shock you. And what I think makes me most beautiful ….. By request of my social media clients. PM version. AM tomorrow morning. Connect on Facebook Share Free Share… [read more]

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Achievement and Success, Alignment, Art, Coaching, Follow & Feel Your Heart, Fun, HEART, Managing Energy, Personal, Personal Growth, Purpose, Recovering Overachiever, Releasing Resistance, Self Love Series, The Be Team, The Body Always Knows, Transformation, Uncategorized

The Pressure to Always Be Nexting

April 14, 2016

Everywhere I look there is the pressure to get to the NEXT level. Next this, next that.  No celebration, move on…bigger bigger bigger. Hustle Hustle Hustle. How does that make your body feel? Seriously, check in….feel, is there lightness and excitement, or is there constriction… [read more]

by allisoncrow 
Coaching, HEART, Mindset and Thinking, Ordinary Courage, Personal, Personal Growth, Self Love Series, Small Biz Support, Transformation, Uncategorized

Something I’m Nervous to Share: Turns Out It Was Burn Out

July 10, 2015

Something I feel vulnerable sharing… And will probably write more about soon. BURNOUT and DEPRESSION. How can a gal who has a few calls a day, makes art, chills by the pool, and hangs with her hubby and dogs and has amazing clients be smacked… [read more]

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𝐄𝐦𝐨𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐧 𝐄𝐦𝐨𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐛𝐥𝐞𝐦𝐬 𝐭𝐨 𝐛𝐞 𝐟𝐢𝐱𝐞𝐝 𝐨𝐫 𝐚𝐯𝐨𝐢𝐝𝐞𝐝—they’re messages from different parts of you. Rather than labeling them as good or bad, approach them with curiosity. Each emotion is a part of your system trying to communicate something important about your needs. By listening with empathy to these parts, you deepen your understanding of yourself and build emotional intelligence. This practice of compassionate inquiry helps you strengthen your connection to your internal experience and empowers you to respond in a way that aligns with your true Self.
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Overthink Much? I have this mental ideal that is Overthink Much?

I have this mental ideal that is embedded in my brain that I would be able to wake up and move forward with all my intentions.  I can see the clear direction and simple steps. I can envision all the "results" and the relief I make up those results would bring. 

One of the things I'm teaching myself to do - is try to write more from a professional voice for you instead of blab in inner processing out on this little white pop-up box. 

How's that working, Alli?

Buahahahah.... all my sweet and striving little parts trying to hold my life closely to that ideal.  I sense the squirm of these parts in my body even when my "thinking" is clear.

I now know this to be a signal for me to slow down and meet those parts with calm and curiosity. First, I must get past one of my sneakiest and most powerful parts—my "awareness" part. This is not Awareness from my core self. 
In IFS - we call these self-like parts. The distinction is that the awareness part carries the burden and tone of "You're doing it wrong."

I asked my clients to notice the part of them that is "mindful and self-aware." What are the words that the voice uses? What is its tone? 

Is it SELF-calm and compassionate, deeply connected? Or is it cognitive and managerial with a motive? 

OOOOF...sending sweet love and compassion to all my thinking, overthinking, and trying-to-get-it-right-for-some-imaginaryideal-parts, and to yours. 

These parts need our somatic connection and attunement. They do not need judgment and alienation. They are scared and holding ages of fear and pain. 

Hello, inner managers, and judgers, and thinkers.  I see you.  I am here for you.  I see your skills.  You have done nothing wrong.  No matter what you feel, you deserve more love, not less.  Let's just breathe together, and then you can share your fears and concerns.  I am here for you.  I will not leave you.
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In the IFS community, we call triggers "trailheads In the IFS community, we call triggers "trailheads" or say, "This part of me is really activated." Identifying and caring for emotionally reactive parts gives us the opportunity to respond with intention rather than impulsively. By practicing emotional regulation and internal partswork, you can create space between stimulus and response, allowing for more thoughtful and grounded decision-making.
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For me, it was the fear I would disintegrate and b For me, it was the fear I would disintegrate and be insignificant.  For many, it's attached to conditional love.  IFS coaching helped me in places typical coaching couldn't.  It helped me compassionately understand and connect with these parts - and ya know what? They began to relax, build trust, and step back, leaving space for my natural creativity, grounded confidence, and clarity to lead in my work & life.  This is available to you.  #ifscoaching
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