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Achievement and Success, Anxiety, Authentic Leadership, Behind the Curtain, Follow & Feel Your Heart, Grief, Internal Family Systems Coaching, Leadership, Managing Energy, Marketing Tips, Mindset and Thinking, Recovering Overachiever, Recovering People Pleaser, Releasing Resistance, Self Leadership, ShareYourHeartShowYourWork, Small Biz Support, Social Media, Soul-Full Success

Struggling with the Social Media Marketing Machine

February 17, 2023

An insight about my creative process that may point you to insights about your own creative process:   When I openly acknowledge the hard and I can compassionately witness myself and even the tiniest of suffering, the hard often lifts within a few days. It… [read more]

by allisoncrow 
Achievement and Success, Behind the Curtain, Biz Secrets, Coaching, FB Live, Online Business, ShareYourHeartShowYourWork, Small Biz Support, Social Media, Soul-Full Success, Video

#155: How to Create Content Gold Share Your Heart Show Your Work Style

November 18, 2021

Episode 155 of the Better Life Better Work show and I have a heart-centered business system and tool for you today. Grab a notebook and get ready to write a few things down. Connect on Facebook Share Free Share Your Heart Show Your Work Facebook… [read more]

by allisoncrow 
Alignment, Authentic Leadership, Better Life Better Work Show, Coaching, Conversations, Leadership, Life Coaching, Mindset and Thinking, Personal Growth, Podcast, Remember, Self Leadership, Social Media, Soul-Full Success

Down on Social Media? – An Insight that Helped Me Get My Groove Back

June 20, 2021

Who else has felt really down and burnt out and exhausted and annoyed or discouraged with Social Media? I know I have and that was a very strange feeling for me because I love and have loved Social Media. If you’re up for reclaiming your… [read more]

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Episode 30: Relational Sales, Achieving Introverts, & Instagram w/ Heidi Taylor

July 28, 2018

Hey, introverts and quiet creatives. This one is just for you.  And extroverts… you’ll want to listen because understanding introverts can only help you in your relationships and business.  Meet Heidi Tayor – A Relational Sales Coach – whom I met on Instagram a few… [read more]

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by allisoncrow 
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Episode 30: Better Life Better Work with Heidi Taylor Relational Sales, Introverts & Instagram.

July 27, 2018

Episode 30: Better Life Better Work with Heidi Taylor Relational Sales, Introverts & Instagram. Connect on Facebook Share Free Share Your Heart Show Your Work Facebook Community Soulies Self-Leadership Coaching Membership

by allisoncrow 
Authentic Leadership, Behind the Curtain, FB Live, Mindset and Thinking, Personal Growth, Small Biz Support, Social Media

Off the wagon, on the wagon, Babbling my way back to brilliance.

January 2, 2018

Off the wagon, on the wagon, Babbling my way back to brilliance. A bit about my brain being fried by my addiction to social media and what I’m doing about it to strengthen my attention span. Connect on Facebook Share Free Share Your Heart Show Your Work… [read more]

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Lessons For My Friends: FB Live?? How to get the most out of …

August 3, 2016

Lessons For My Friends: FB Live?? How to get the most out of it as a viewer. Connect on Facebook Share Free Share Your Heart Show Your Work Facebook Community Soulies Self-Leadership Coaching Membership

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FB Live, ShareYourHeartShowYourWork, Small Biz Support, Social Media, Uncategorized, Video

No SnapChat here folks!

August 2, 2016

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πŸ’› Finding Home in the Wild Edges of Being Human

𝐄𝐦𝐨𝐭𝐒𝐨𝐧𝐬 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐧 𝐄𝐦𝐨𝐭𝐒𝐨𝐧𝐬 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐛π₯𝐞𝐦𝐬 𝐭𝐨 π›πž 𝐟𝐒𝐱𝐞𝐝 𝐨𝐫 πšπ―π¨π’ππžπβ€”they’re messages from different parts of you. Rather than labeling them as good or bad, approach them with curiosity. Each emotion is a part of your system trying to communicate something important about your needs. By listening with empathy to these parts, you deepen your understanding of yourself and build emotional intelligence. This practice of compassionate inquiry helps you strengthen your connection to your internal experience and empowers you to respond in a way that aligns with your true Self.
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Overthink Much? I have this mental ideal that is Overthink Much?

I have this mental ideal that is embedded in my brain that I would be able to wake up and move forward with all my intentions.  I can see the clear direction and simple steps. I can envision all the "results" and the relief I make up those results would bring. 

One of the things I'm teaching myself to do - is try to write more from a professional voice for you instead of blab in inner processing out on this little white pop-up box. 

How's that working, Alli?

Buahahahah.... all my sweet and striving little parts trying to hold my life closely to that ideal.  I sense the squirm of these parts in my body even when my "thinking" is clear.

I now know this to be a signal for me to slow down and meet those parts with calm and curiosity. First, I must get past one of my sneakiest and most powerful partsβ€”my "awareness" part. This is not Awareness from my core self. 
In IFS - we call these self-like parts. The distinction is that the awareness part carries the burden and tone of "You're doing it wrong."

I asked my clients to notice the part of them that is "mindful and self-aware." What are the words that the voice uses? What is its tone? 

Is it SELF-calm and compassionate, deeply connected? Or is it cognitive and managerial with a motive? 

OOOOF...sending sweet love and compassion to all my thinking, overthinking, and trying-to-get-it-right-for-some-imaginaryideal-parts, and to yours. 

These parts need our somatic connection and attunement. They do not need judgment and alienation. They are scared and holding ages of fear and pain. 

Hello, inner managers, and judgers, and thinkers.  I see you.  I am here for you.  I see your skills.  You have done nothing wrong.  No matter what you feel, you deserve more love, not less.  Let's just breathe together, and then you can share your fears and concerns.  I am here for you.  I will not leave you.
This sweet girl. Only a few taco Tuesday’s left This sweet girl. Only a few taco Tuesday’s left before they move across the state.
In the IFS community, we call triggers "trailheads In the IFS community, we call triggers "trailheads" or say, "This part of me is really activated." Identifying and caring for emotionally reactive parts gives us the opportunity to respond with intention rather than impulsively. By practicing emotional regulation and internal partswork, you can create space between stimulus and response, allowing for more thoughtful and grounded decision-making.
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For me, it was the fear I would disintegrate and b For me, it was the fear I would disintegrate and be insignificant.  For many, it's attached to conditional love.  IFS coaching helped me in places typical coaching couldn't.  It helped me compassionately understand and connect with these parts - and ya know what? They began to relax, build trust, and step back, leaving space for my natural creativity, grounded confidence, and clarity to lead in my work & life.  This is available to you.  #ifscoaching
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