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The gift of anticipation – and my scratch off lottery ticket

January 19, 2021

The gift of anticipation – and my scratch off lottery ticket Connect on Facebook Share Free Share Your Heart Show Your Work Facebook Community Soulies Self-Leadership Coaching Membership

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Biz Secrets, FB Live, Online Business, Video

3 Pitfalls to Watch Out For During Your Next Uplevel- And What to Do Instead

January 13, 2021

3 Pitfalls to Watch Out For During Your Next Uplevel – And what to do instead. Connect on Facebook Share Free Share Your Heart Show Your Work Facebook Community Soulies Self-Leadership Coaching Membership

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Remember who you are…

January 11, 2021

Remember who you are. Connect on Facebook Share Free Share Your Heart Show Your Work Facebook Community Soulies Self-Leadership Coaching Membership

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Achievement and Success, Biz Secrets, Leadership, Money, Online Business, Podcast, Small Biz Support, Soul-Full Success, Spiritual Business

3 Phases of a Small Business

January 10, 2021

Do you know which phase of business you are in?  You will after listening to this episode!  I’m breaking down the 3 core phases of business so you can determine which you are in and have some guidance and framework for where to focus and… [read more]

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Relationship and Referral Only? Are you accidentally running a secret business

January 9, 2021

Relationship and Referral Only? Are you accidentally running a secret business? Connect on Facebook Share Free Share Your Heart Show Your Work Facebook Community Soulies Self-Leadership Coaching Membership

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By request —- let’s talk about freedom of speech and censorship while I do my face.

January 9, 2021

By request —- let’s talk about freedom of speech and censorship while I do my face. Connect on Facebook Share Free Share Your Heart Show Your Work Facebook Community Soulies Self-Leadership Coaching Membership

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Overcoming productivity/accountability trauma and why I’m embracing tracking habits in 2021.

December 30, 2020

After an early coaching career in what I call HARD-CORE SALES, I had some serious resistance to habits, and tracking, and productivity and swung way opposite to flow and inspiration only….and now… my healed and whole self sees the place for both! Here’s a short… [read more]

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Allison and Bill in a park
Achievement and Success, Biz Secrets, Leadership, Mindset and Thinking, Ordinary Courage, Releasing Resistance, Small Biz Support, Soul-Full Success

Comparison Will Crush Your Progress

May 26, 2020

Comparison. Other people’s opinions. Rejection. Am I doing it right? Am I doing it wrong? She’s getting opportunities I’m not getting. Why is this so easy for them and so hard for me? I remember these thoughts. Sometimes I still have these thoughts…. but only… [read more]

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𝐄𝐦𝐨𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐧 𝐄𝐦𝐨𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐛𝐥𝐞𝐦𝐬 𝐭𝐨 𝐛𝐞 𝐟𝐢𝐱𝐞𝐝 𝐨𝐫 𝐚𝐯𝐨𝐢𝐝𝐞𝐝—they’re messages from different parts of you. Rather than labeling them as good or bad, approach them with curiosity. Each emotion is a part of your system trying to communicate something important about your needs. By listening with empathy to these parts, you deepen your understanding of yourself and build emotional intelligence. This practice of compassionate inquiry helps you strengthen your connection to your internal experience and empowers you to respond in a way that aligns with your true Self.
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Overthink Much? I have this mental ideal that is Overthink Much?

I have this mental ideal that is embedded in my brain that I would be able to wake up and move forward with all my intentions.  I can see the clear direction and simple steps. I can envision all the "results" and the relief I make up those results would bring. 

One of the things I'm teaching myself to do - is try to write more from a professional voice for you instead of blab in inner processing out on this little white pop-up box. 

How's that working, Alli?

Buahahahah.... all my sweet and striving little parts trying to hold my life closely to that ideal.  I sense the squirm of these parts in my body even when my "thinking" is clear.

I now know this to be a signal for me to slow down and meet those parts with calm and curiosity. First, I must get past one of my sneakiest and most powerful parts—my "awareness" part. This is not Awareness from my core self. 
In IFS - we call these self-like parts. The distinction is that the awareness part carries the burden and tone of "You're doing it wrong."

I asked my clients to notice the part of them that is "mindful and self-aware." What are the words that the voice uses? What is its tone? 

Is it SELF-calm and compassionate, deeply connected? Or is it cognitive and managerial with a motive? 

OOOOF...sending sweet love and compassion to all my thinking, overthinking, and trying-to-get-it-right-for-some-imaginaryideal-parts, and to yours. 

These parts need our somatic connection and attunement. They do not need judgment and alienation. They are scared and holding ages of fear and pain. 

Hello, inner managers, and judgers, and thinkers.  I see you.  I am here for you.  I see your skills.  You have done nothing wrong.  No matter what you feel, you deserve more love, not less.  Let's just breathe together, and then you can share your fears and concerns.  I am here for you.  I will not leave you.
This sweet girl. Only a few taco Tuesday’s left This sweet girl. Only a few taco Tuesday’s left before they move across the state.
In the IFS community, we call triggers "trailheads In the IFS community, we call triggers "trailheads" or say, "This part of me is really activated." Identifying and caring for emotionally reactive parts gives us the opportunity to respond with intention rather than impulsively. By practicing emotional regulation and internal partswork, you can create space between stimulus and response, allowing for more thoughtful and grounded decision-making.
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For me, it was the fear I would disintegrate and b For me, it was the fear I would disintegrate and be insignificant.  For many, it's attached to conditional love.  IFS coaching helped me in places typical coaching couldn't.  It helped me compassionately understand and connect with these parts - and ya know what? They began to relax, build trust, and step back, leaving space for my natural creativity, grounded confidence, and clarity to lead in my work & life.  This is available to you.  #ifscoaching
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