Allison Crow

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Care of the Soul, Compassionate Inquiry, Depression, Love, Personal, Releasing Resistance, Renewal, Sacred Journeys, Self Compassion, Self Leadership, Source, Spirituality, Wild Edges of Being Human

I tossed an entire prayer book into the trash

December 19, 2022

I just tossed an entire book into the recycle bin. So much for that prayerful meditation. I opened a prayer book to a random page – and it landed on a prayer for “emotional distress.” And the line that pissed me off was this: “I… [read more]

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Achievement and Success, Alignment, Art, Authentic Leadership, Releasing Resistance, Soul-Work, Source, Transformation, Unarmored

“The Gritty Masks Faded Away”

September 27, 2022

I just told my writing group peers that this is what I was going to write about . . . . . . how after both completing a book called UNARMORED and having a life-affirming heart event – everything is different; how I have no… [read more]

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Alignment, FB Live, HEART, Inner Whisper, Source, Uncategorized

Coffee & Cards: Remembering.

October 18, 2016

Coffee & Cards: Remembering. Connect on Facebook Share Free Share Your Heart Show Your Work Facebook Community Soulies Self-Leadership Coaching Membership

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Everyday Magic, HEART, Inner Whisper, Love, My Mentors, Personal, Sacred Journeys, Soul-Full Living, Source, Transformation, Uncategorized

Deep Heartfelt Appreciation for Dr Wayne Dyer

August 31, 2015

  Dr. Wayne Dyer has passed from his body.  And when I saw the news, and then confirmed it on his page, the tears started to flow.  A man I only met face to face briefly in the greenroom of a Hay House conference in… [read more]

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Achievement and Success, Coaching, Money, My Mentors, Prosperity, Prosperous Coach, Small Biz Support, Soul-Full Living, Source, Uncategorized

What I’ve Learned about Client Creation by A Prosperous Coach

August 26, 2015

I was discussing various programs with Stacy Nelson this morning. I have a retreat in a few months and both of us are on deck to do larger events this year. And….. while at first it feels daunting… one thing I KNOW to be true… [read more]

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Follow & Feel Your Heart, List, Soul-Full Living, Source, Uncategorized

Dusting off Desire and Making BOLD Declarations

November 18, 2014

[et_pb_section admin_label=”section”][et_pb_row admin_label=”row”][et_pb_column type=”4_4″][et_pb_text admin_label=”Text”] DESIRE: When did we give it up…when did we allow it to get dusty and feel ashamed of what we desire. Ok I guess I could own that….when did I allow desire to get dusty? What is it that we… [read more]

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Art, Everyday Magic, Follow & Feel Your Heart, HEART, Inner Whisper, My Mentors, Ordinary Courage, Sacred Journeys, Source, Transformation, Uncategorized

The Sacred Seed – A Poem by Rafael Bejarno

December 11, 2013

There is in me a stirring, of things to come, and of things that have always been there. ย This weekend I attended a workshop with 50 other amazing coaches. ย The thing I came away with was a sense of belonging and connection with other authentic… [read more]

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๐„๐ฆ๐จ๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ ๐š๐ซ๐ž ๐ง ๐„๐ฆ๐จ๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ ๐š๐ซ๐ž ๐ง๐จ๐ญ ๐ฉ๐ซ๐จ๐›๐ฅ๐ž๐ฆ๐ฌ ๐ญ๐จ ๐›๐ž ๐Ÿ๐ข๐ฑ๐ž๐ ๐จ๐ซ ๐š๐ฏ๐จ๐ข๐๐ž๐โ€”theyโ€™re messages from different parts of you. Rather than labeling them as good or bad, approach them with curiosity. Each emotion is a part of your system trying to communicate something important about your needs. By listening with empathy to these parts, you deepen your understanding of yourself and build emotional intelligence. This practice of compassionate inquiry helps you strengthen your connection to your internal experience and empowers you to respond in a way that aligns with your true Self.
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Overthink Much? I have this mental ideal that is Overthink Much?

I have this mental ideal that is embedded in my brain that I would be able to wake up and move forward with all my intentions.  I can see the clear direction and simple steps. I can envision all the "results" and the relief I make up those results would bring. 

One of the things I'm teaching myself to do - is try to write more from a professional voice for you instead of blab in inner processing out on this little white pop-up box. 

How's that working, Alli?

Buahahahah.... all my sweet and striving little parts trying to hold my life closely to that ideal.  I sense the squirm of these parts in my body even when my "thinking" is clear.

I now know this to be a signal for me to slow down and meet those parts with calm and curiosity. First, I must get past one of my sneakiest and most powerful partsโ€”my "awareness" part. This is not Awareness from my core self. 
In IFS - we call these self-like parts. The distinction is that the awareness part carries the burden and tone of "You're doing it wrong."

I asked my clients to notice the part of them that is "mindful and self-aware." What are the words that the voice uses? What is its tone? 

Is it SELF-calm and compassionate, deeply connected? Or is it cognitive and managerial with a motive? 

OOOOF...sending sweet love and compassion to all my thinking, overthinking, and trying-to-get-it-right-for-some-imaginaryideal-parts, and to yours. 

These parts need our somatic connection and attunement. They do not need judgment and alienation. They are scared and holding ages of fear and pain. 

Hello, inner managers, and judgers, and thinkers.  I see you.  I am here for you.  I see your skills.  You have done nothing wrong.  No matter what you feel, you deserve more love, not less.  Let's just breathe together, and then you can share your fears and concerns.  I am here for you.  I will not leave you.
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In the IFS community, we call triggers "trailheads In the IFS community, we call triggers "trailheads" or say, "This part of me is really activated." Identifying and caring for emotionally reactive parts gives us the opportunity to respond with intention rather than impulsively. By practicing emotional regulation and internal partswork, you can create space between stimulus and response, allowing for more thoughtful and grounded decision-making.
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For me, it was the fear I would disintegrate and b For me, it was the fear I would disintegrate and be insignificant.  For many, it's attached to conditional love.  IFS coaching helped me in places typical coaching couldn't.  It helped me compassionately understand and connect with these parts - and ya know what? They began to relax, build trust, and step back, leaving space for my natural creativity, grounded confidence, and clarity to lead in my work & life.  This is available to you.  #ifscoaching
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