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Alignment, Authentic Leadership, Follow & Feel Your Heart, Leadership, Uncategorized

Leadership Self-Check (ps Follow Me on TikTok)

June 6, 2021

@allison_crow Quick self check for all my small business leaders: ##selfleadership ##smallbusinessowner ##encouragement โ™ฌ Creative – SmiLE

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Art, Authentic Leadership, Behind the Curtain, Expressive Arts, Follow & Feel Your Heart, Releasing Resistance

Pick your Creative Play Back Up

May 31, 2021

Something clicked back on in me this morning. Early March…. I knew I was tired. I knew I needed a break from work creation. I kept serving my clients. I delivered my event and a retreat… I even enrolled for my deep coaching circle –… [read more]

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Achievement and Success, Alignment, Anxiety, Energetic Work, Follow & Feel Your Heart, Managing Energy, Personal Growth, Self Leadership, Soul-Full Living

Recovering Overachievers Need SPACE

May 11, 2021

  I now know why I used to wish I could go to rehab. Not for alcohol or drugs… not to quit anything… but because my systems – nervous and emotional, are always craving space. Generous space.   The capitalistic sense of hurry, fast, and… [read more]

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Alignment, Anxiety, Behind the Curtain, FB Live, Managing Energy, Mindset and Thinking, Self Leadership, The Body Always Knows

Things to Consider as You Re-Enter Life after Covid Shelter In Place.

April 26, 2021

Things to Consider as You Re-Enter Life after Covid Shelter In Place. Connect on Facebook Share Free Share Your Heart Show Your Work Facebook Community Soulies Self-Leadership Coaching Membership

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Achievement and Success, Alignment, Authentic Leadership, Depression, Expressive Arts, Leadership, Life Coaching, Mindset and Thinking, My Mentors, Self Leadership, Soul-Full Living

One Thing Smart People Forget to Do

April 21, 2021

Hey smart people… this one is for YOU. For the first 42 years of my life- KNOWING shit and managing my mind protected and propelled me.   Critical thinking, research, learning everything I could about whatever I was interested in brought me success, power, position…. [read more]

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FB Live

137: What if You Fully Trusted Yourself? [VIDEO EPISODE]

April 19, 2021

Better Life Better Work 2.0: What happens when you declare your values –The Better Life Better Work Show Is Back. What Happened Where We Are And Where We are Going. Connect on Facebook Share Free Share Your Heart Show Your Work Facebook Community Soulies Self-Leadership… [read more]

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Achievement and Success, Authentic Leadership, Behind the Curtain, Breath is your BFF, Follow & Feel Your Heart, Life Coaching, Managing Energy, Mindset and Thinking, Recovering Overachiever, Releasing Resistance, Self Leadership, Soul-Full Success

Taking Space

April 15, 2021

You may have noticed a slight change in my online content lately. Iโ€™ve taken a month off to allow for space and listening. No podcast. No marketing plan. No emails to my address book. Just space (and servicing current clients).   Iโ€™ve been doing some… [read more]

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Biz Secrets, FB Live, Online Business, Video

the lady has gone off her rocker and is unfiltered. Let’s talk about your own personal hell and satan and it isn’t little nas x giving a booty dance to the devil.

April 1, 2021

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๐Ÿ’›IFS coaching for life/biz
๐ŸŒธReBLOOM Midlife Group
๐Ÿ“™Unarmored
โœจAUDHD
๐Ÿ’› Finding Home in the Wild Edges of Being Human

๐„๐ฆ๐จ๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ ๐š๐ซ๐ž ๐ง ๐„๐ฆ๐จ๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ ๐š๐ซ๐ž ๐ง๐จ๐ญ ๐ฉ๐ซ๐จ๐›๐ฅ๐ž๐ฆ๐ฌ ๐ญ๐จ ๐›๐ž ๐Ÿ๐ข๐ฑ๐ž๐ ๐จ๐ซ ๐š๐ฏ๐จ๐ข๐๐ž๐โ€”theyโ€™re messages from different parts of you. Rather than labeling them as good or bad, approach them with curiosity. Each emotion is a part of your system trying to communicate something important about your needs. By listening with empathy to these parts, you deepen your understanding of yourself and build emotional intelligence. This practice of compassionate inquiry helps you strengthen your connection to your internal experience and empowers you to respond in a way that aligns with your true Self.
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Overthink Much? I have this mental ideal that is Overthink Much?

I have this mental ideal that is embedded in my brain that I would be able to wake up and move forward with all my intentions.  I can see the clear direction and simple steps. I can envision all the "results" and the relief I make up those results would bring. 

One of the things I'm teaching myself to do - is try to write more from a professional voice for you instead of blab in inner processing out on this little white pop-up box. 

How's that working, Alli?

Buahahahah.... all my sweet and striving little parts trying to hold my life closely to that ideal.  I sense the squirm of these parts in my body even when my "thinking" is clear.

I now know this to be a signal for me to slow down and meet those parts with calm and curiosity. First, I must get past one of my sneakiest and most powerful partsโ€”my "awareness" part. This is not Awareness from my core self. 
In IFS - we call these self-like parts. The distinction is that the awareness part carries the burden and tone of "You're doing it wrong."

I asked my clients to notice the part of them that is "mindful and self-aware." What are the words that the voice uses? What is its tone? 

Is it SELF-calm and compassionate, deeply connected? Or is it cognitive and managerial with a motive? 

OOOOF...sending sweet love and compassion to all my thinking, overthinking, and trying-to-get-it-right-for-some-imaginaryideal-parts, and to yours. 

These parts need our somatic connection and attunement. They do not need judgment and alienation. They are scared and holding ages of fear and pain. 

Hello, inner managers, and judgers, and thinkers.  I see you.  I am here for you.  I see your skills.  You have done nothing wrong.  No matter what you feel, you deserve more love, not less.  Let's just breathe together, and then you can share your fears and concerns.  I am here for you.  I will not leave you.
This sweet girl. Only a few taco Tuesdayโ€™s left This sweet girl. Only a few taco Tuesdayโ€™s left before they move across the state.
In the IFS community, we call triggers "trailheads In the IFS community, we call triggers "trailheads" or say, "This part of me is really activated." Identifying and caring for emotionally reactive parts gives us the opportunity to respond with intention rather than impulsively. By practicing emotional regulation and internal partswork, you can create space between stimulus and response, allowing for more thoughtful and grounded decision-making.
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For me, it was the fear I would disintegrate and b For me, it was the fear I would disintegrate and be insignificant.  For many, it's attached to conditional love.  IFS coaching helped me in places typical coaching couldn't.  It helped me compassionately understand and connect with these parts - and ya know what? They began to relax, build trust, and step back, leaving space for my natural creativity, grounded confidence, and clarity to lead in my work & life.  This is available to you.  #ifscoaching
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