6 Reasons I Use Internal Family Systems With My Coaching Clients IFS – Internal Family Systems – is a SELF Leadership tool I use in my coaching practice. Here Six reasons I have IFS found helpful for me and my coaching clients: The IFS… [read more]
Unwinding Direction into Wandering for a Season
December 6th, Last year, my book was published. And that early morning, as I sat down at my desk, my husband asked, “What are you doing?” “Going to writing practice.” This had been my answer to his morning question every day for the previous few… [read more]
Life is Suffering – And Hummingbirds
Life is suffering – AND. Yup – both and again. You know those plastic shit hummingbird feeders? The ones that need to be cleaned every week because they can get moldy and kill the birds? The ones that make a big sugary mess in… [read more]
Tanya Markul Poem That Says So Much
“When I realized my pain came from wanting to be liked, I began to love myself. When I realised my pain came from wanting to be acknowledged, I started to see who I really was…” This poem by Tanya Markul is a beautiful expression… [read more]
In a Romantic Relationship with My Desk? Why Yes
She’s lived in every home I’ve owned and briefly been loaned to each of my husbands as I experimented with other working spaces (does anyone remember my haunted antique lawyer d esk?). She is back in my space, my studio, my office, and deeply in… [read more]
On the Front Porch with Protective Parts
As a trained #internalfamilysystems coach (vs. a therapist) who works with very smart, head-led, and strategic business owners – we do a ton of what I call Front porch work. My specific amazing clients have protectors & internal that use fierce but publicly… [read more]
To Feel is Human
Because you are human, you feel. It’s science. It’s biology. Because you live in society, you’ve been brainwashed and conditioned to make (especially uncomfortable) emotions wrong and definitely not trustworthy. Antonio R. Damasio, M.D., Ph.D., writes: “Emotion is an adaptive response, part of the vital… [read more]
Fierce Personal Protector Parts – Internal Family Systems
Imagine a very quiet secret service protector. She is quiet but consistently over my right shoulder. Her presence is thick and always there. But she isn’t on guard for outside threats; she is monitoring my behavior, my productivity, my processes, and my very existence. Most… [read more]
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