Allison Crow

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Alignment, Inner Whisper, Mindset and Thinking, My Mentors, Personal Growth, Uncategorized

Channeling Our Wise Woman Selves

February 26, 2016

Originally posted on my facebook feed:   Last week a friend shared a post with over 150 images of amazing beautiful older women. A few of the images felt familiar to my soul- as if they were versions of my FUTURE SELF. So I’m going… [read more]

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Alignment, Coaching, Conversations, FB Live, Follow & Feel Your Heart, Mindset and Thinking, Money, My Mentors, Online Business, Prosperity, Uncategorized, Video

3 things I learned from Michelle Bauman ❤️ #goodshitlive

February 23, 2016

3 things I learned from Michelle Bauman ❤️ #goodshitlive Connect on Facebook Share Free Share Your Heart Show Your Work Facebook Community Soulies Self-Leadership Coaching Membership

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Alignment, Biz Secrets, Coaching, Follow & Feel Your Heart, Mindset and Thinking, Uncategorized

Pursuing What Sets Your Soul On Fire 

July 13, 2015

Checking in with Spirit and my Divine Business Manager today, the message to day was to allow ourselves to serve not JUST our own higher good…or JUST the higher good of all…but to serve BOTH the higher good of all and our own higher good…. [read more]

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Coaching, HEART, Mindset and Thinking, Ordinary Courage, Personal, Personal Growth, Self Love Series, Small Biz Support, Transformation, Uncategorized

Something I’m Nervous to Share: Turns Out It Was Burn Out

July 10, 2015

Something I feel vulnerable sharing… And will probably write more about soon. BURNOUT and DEPRESSION. How can a gal who has a few calls a day, makes art, chills by the pool, and hangs with her hubby and dogs and has amazing clients be smacked… [read more]

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Mindset and Thinking, Personal Growth, Releasing Resistance, Uncategorized

Unfucking Up My Thinking

June 5, 2015

Only your thinking can fuck up your life. Only your thinking can bless your life. I’m working on releasing my thinking that some people are fucked up because it makes me feel tight and angry and that is stealing my joy. For me this is… [read more]

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Achievement and Success, Life Coaching, Mindset and Thinking, Personal, Personal Growth, Uncategorized

Hi. My Name is Allison & I Am A Recovering Overachiever

April 28, 2015

I have many friends and loved ones who are in AA.  I am in a different kind of recovery.  I struggle with it every day.  I am a recovering Over Achiever.   Today… I had jury duty and thought I would test out an outfit… [read more]

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𝐄𝐦𝐨𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐧 𝐄𝐦𝐨𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐛𝐥𝐞𝐦𝐬 𝐭𝐨 𝐛𝐞 𝐟𝐢𝐱𝐞𝐝 𝐨𝐫 𝐚𝐯𝐨𝐢𝐝𝐞𝐝—they’re messages from different parts of you. Rather than labeling them as good or bad, approach them with curiosity. Each emotion is a part of your system trying to communicate something important about your needs. By listening with empathy to these parts, you deepen your understanding of yourself and build emotional intelligence. This practice of compassionate inquiry helps you strengthen your connection to your internal experience and empowers you to respond in a way that aligns with your true Self.
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Overthink Much? I have this mental ideal that is Overthink Much?

I have this mental ideal that is embedded in my brain that I would be able to wake up and move forward with all my intentions.  I can see the clear direction and simple steps. I can envision all the "results" and the relief I make up those results would bring. 

One of the things I'm teaching myself to do - is try to write more from a professional voice for you instead of blab in inner processing out on this little white pop-up box. 

How's that working, Alli?

Buahahahah.... all my sweet and striving little parts trying to hold my life closely to that ideal.  I sense the squirm of these parts in my body even when my "thinking" is clear.

I now know this to be a signal for me to slow down and meet those parts with calm and curiosity. First, I must get past one of my sneakiest and most powerful parts—my "awareness" part. This is not Awareness from my core self. 
In IFS - we call these self-like parts. The distinction is that the awareness part carries the burden and tone of "You're doing it wrong."

I asked my clients to notice the part of them that is "mindful and self-aware." What are the words that the voice uses? What is its tone? 

Is it SELF-calm and compassionate, deeply connected? Or is it cognitive and managerial with a motive? 

OOOOF...sending sweet love and compassion to all my thinking, overthinking, and trying-to-get-it-right-for-some-imaginaryideal-parts, and to yours. 

These parts need our somatic connection and attunement. They do not need judgment and alienation. They are scared and holding ages of fear and pain. 

Hello, inner managers, and judgers, and thinkers.  I see you.  I am here for you.  I see your skills.  You have done nothing wrong.  No matter what you feel, you deserve more love, not less.  Let's just breathe together, and then you can share your fears and concerns.  I am here for you.  I will not leave you.
This sweet girl. Only a few taco Tuesday’s left This sweet girl. Only a few taco Tuesday’s left before they move across the state.
In the IFS community, we call triggers "trailheads In the IFS community, we call triggers "trailheads" or say, "This part of me is really activated." Identifying and caring for emotionally reactive parts gives us the opportunity to respond with intention rather than impulsively. By practicing emotional regulation and internal partswork, you can create space between stimulus and response, allowing for more thoughtful and grounded decision-making.
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For me, it was the fear I would disintegrate and b For me, it was the fear I would disintegrate and be insignificant.  For many, it's attached to conditional love.  IFS coaching helped me in places typical coaching couldn't.  It helped me compassionately understand and connect with these parts - and ya know what? They began to relax, build trust, and step back, leaving space for my natural creativity, grounded confidence, and clarity to lead in my work & life.  This is available to you.  #ifscoaching
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