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Achievement and Success, Alignment, Authentic Leadership, Better Life Better Work Show, Coaching, Conversations, Emotions, Internal Family Systems, Leadership, Life, Life Coaching, Managing Energy, Mindset and Thinking, Personal, Personal Growth, Podcast, Releasing Resistance, Self Leadership

How To Use The 8 Cs of IFS to support your business

December 2, 2021

How the 8 Cs of Internal Family System can support your work. IFS is a non pathologizing evidenced based model. It’s a means of working with our many thoughts, emotions, beliefs, behaviors and different parts of ourselves that make up the natural multiplicity of the… [read more]

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Achievement and Success, Anxiety, Authentic Leadership, Conversations, FB Live, Leadership, Life Coaching, Managing Energy, Releasing Resistance, Renewal

Strong leaders- independent overfunctioners, this is for you:

September 2, 2021

Strong leaders- independent overfunctioners, this is for you: Connect on Facebook Share Free Share Your Heart Show Your Work Facebook Community Soulies Self-Leadership Coaching Membership

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Achievement and Success, Alignment, Energetic Work, Everyday Magic, Inner Whisper, Internal Family Systems, Managing Energy, Mindset and Thinking, Personal Growth, Recovering Overachiever, Releasing Resistance, Self Leadership

You are a Gardener Not a Machine

July 22, 2021

Oh, how the world wants to press us into the idea that we can behave and perform like a machine in life and business. You, my DEAR… and you are a dear one. You are a gardener, not a machine. This is your reminder to… [read more]

by allisoncrow 
Alignment, Anxiety, Authentic Leadership, Breath is your BFF, Conversations, Depression, Emotions, Expressive Arts, Internal Family Systems, Leadership, Life, Life Coaching, Mindset and Thinking, My Mentors, Ordinary Courage, Personal Growth, Recovering Overachiever, Releasing Resistance, Self Leadership, Soul-Full Living, Soul-Full Success, Soul-Work, The Body Always Knows, Transformation

Being Smart, and where traditional coaching failed, and what helped.

July 16, 2021

For 49 years I’ve been too smart for my own good. I’m a lifelong student and always will be. My intellectual prowess has always given me a sense of safety and security. For most of my life, this was unconscious and now I see. I… [read more]

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Alignment, Authentic Leadership, HEART, Inner Whisper, Internal Family Systems, Leadership, Life Coaching, Love, Managing Energy, Ordinary Courage, Personal Growth, Releasing Resistance, Self Leadership, Small Biz Support, Soul-Full Living, Transformation

Qualities of SELF – Internal Family Systems

July 13, 2021

When I began studying SELF-Leadership and SELF-Trust even more intently, I had no idea what #internalfamilysystems was. And yet… right there…. SELF. This work has brought me to, and can bring you to, a deeper meeting of your SELF and all your parts…. Parts are all these… [read more]

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Achievement and Success, Authentic Leadership, Coaching, Emotions, HEART, Internal Family Systems, Leadership, Life Coaching, Mindset and Thinking, Personal Growth, Releasing Resistance, Self Leadership, Small Biz Support

Limiting Belief? No Shit. Now What

July 13, 2021

How many times have you hit this wall? And how many times have you been told “Change your thinking,” or “trade up your thoughts”, or “have a more powerful mindset.” Honestly – “Change your Thinking, Change Your Life” was in-road to my whole career as… [read more]

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Emotions, Life Coaching, Managing Energy, Mindset and Thinking, Personal Growth, Releasing Resistance, Self Leadership, Soul-Full Living

Emotions and Poop

June 25, 2021

Emotions aren’t a problem to be solved or fixed. You are not broken. Let’s talk poop for a moment. That is a biological process and probably you learned helpful ways to poop daily. You learned how to use a toilet because pooping in a toilet… [read more]

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Art, Authentic Leadership, Behind the Curtain, Expressive Arts, Follow & Feel Your Heart, Releasing Resistance

Pick your Creative Play Back Up

May 31, 2021

Something clicked back on in me this morning. Early March…. I knew I was tired. I knew I needed a break from work creation. I kept serving my clients. I delivered my event and a retreat… I even enrolled for my deep coaching circle –… [read more]

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𝐄𝐦𝐨𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐧 𝐄𝐦𝐨𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐛𝐥𝐞𝐦𝐬 𝐭𝐨 𝐛𝐞 𝐟𝐢𝐱𝐞𝐝 𝐨𝐫 𝐚𝐯𝐨𝐢𝐝𝐞𝐝—they’re messages from different parts of you. Rather than labeling them as good or bad, approach them with curiosity. Each emotion is a part of your system trying to communicate something important about your needs. By listening with empathy to these parts, you deepen your understanding of yourself and build emotional intelligence. This practice of compassionate inquiry helps you strengthen your connection to your internal experience and empowers you to respond in a way that aligns with your true Self.
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Overthink Much? I have this mental ideal that is Overthink Much?

I have this mental ideal that is embedded in my brain that I would be able to wake up and move forward with all my intentions.  I can see the clear direction and simple steps. I can envision all the "results" and the relief I make up those results would bring. 

One of the things I'm teaching myself to do - is try to write more from a professional voice for you instead of blab in inner processing out on this little white pop-up box. 

How's that working, Alli?

Buahahahah.... all my sweet and striving little parts trying to hold my life closely to that ideal.  I sense the squirm of these parts in my body even when my "thinking" is clear.

I now know this to be a signal for me to slow down and meet those parts with calm and curiosity. First, I must get past one of my sneakiest and most powerful parts—my "awareness" part. This is not Awareness from my core self. 
In IFS - we call these self-like parts. The distinction is that the awareness part carries the burden and tone of "You're doing it wrong."

I asked my clients to notice the part of them that is "mindful and self-aware." What are the words that the voice uses? What is its tone? 

Is it SELF-calm and compassionate, deeply connected? Or is it cognitive and managerial with a motive? 

OOOOF...sending sweet love and compassion to all my thinking, overthinking, and trying-to-get-it-right-for-some-imaginaryideal-parts, and to yours. 

These parts need our somatic connection and attunement. They do not need judgment and alienation. They are scared and holding ages of fear and pain. 

Hello, inner managers, and judgers, and thinkers.  I see you.  I am here for you.  I see your skills.  You have done nothing wrong.  No matter what you feel, you deserve more love, not less.  Let's just breathe together, and then you can share your fears and concerns.  I am here for you.  I will not leave you.
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In the IFS community, we call triggers "trailheads In the IFS community, we call triggers "trailheads" or say, "This part of me is really activated." Identifying and caring for emotionally reactive parts gives us the opportunity to respond with intention rather than impulsively. By practicing emotional regulation and internal partswork, you can create space between stimulus and response, allowing for more thoughtful and grounded decision-making.
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For me, it was the fear I would disintegrate and b For me, it was the fear I would disintegrate and be insignificant.  For many, it's attached to conditional love.  IFS coaching helped me in places typical coaching couldn't.  It helped me compassionately understand and connect with these parts - and ya know what? They began to relax, build trust, and step back, leaving space for my natural creativity, grounded confidence, and clarity to lead in my work & life.  This is available to you.  #ifscoaching
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