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STOP the Habit of Looking at the Past for Evidence of Future Possibility

February 23, 2020

  Stop looking back.  Stop framing your future based on your past.  Iโ€™m guilty, SO guilty actually, of doing this too. But we have to actively change this pattern in order to truly move forward.  Iโ€™m sharing this now because itโ€™s one of the two… [read more]

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Your Deepest Primary Fear is the KEY to Your BEST Life

February 2, 2020

What truly motivates you?  I bet the answer inside you may surprise you.  Sure, you are probably like me in that you have a lot of desires, but desires, while motivating, arenโ€™t motivating enough, right?  Think of all the times you have desired something but… [read more]

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Live Coaching with Tara LeDuc

January 19, 2020

  We have a special inside look on the podcast today… I’m sharing a REAL 1-1 coaching call with you.  It can be hard to describe what coaching calls are like, so what better way to share with you than show you the true experience!… [read more]

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Rambling Our Way to Re-Enchantment

January 12, 2020

This week on the podcast is a bit of a riff. Itโ€™s part me sharing whatโ€™s on my heart and part things that are coming up for clients this week.  If you are someone that feels pressure to feel valuable or to perform to be… [read more]

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by Elyse Rich 
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An Imperfect Start to 2020: Soul-Full Success isn’t Always Perfect

January 5, 2020

So far 2020 has been anything but perfect.    And in realizing this, I recognized that I want to share with yโ€™all more about real life leadership- how we can keep showing up even when we donโ€™t want to, even when we donโ€™t feel ready,… [read more]

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Open Heart, Slow Tango, Big Profit

December 29, 2019

โ€œWhat got you here wonโ€™t get you there.โ€ Wow – I have hated when my coaches have said this to me.  And…. of course, I am seeing where this is true for me.  As we come to yearโ€™s end, Iโ€™m reflecting on my journey, who… [read more]

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The Best Lessons of 2019

December 22, 2019

  The end of the year is often a time of reflection.  This episode covers the highs and lows of 2019 here at Soul-Full Living.  Straight from my journals… sharing my heart and lessons with you so that you might see a bit of your… [read more]

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Releasing What No Longer Serves You As You Go Into 2020

December 15, 2019

This is some good stuff today! Open your heart…tap in…perhaps grab a journal for a little lesson on releasing and then I pull oracle cards for us all.  I promise there is a message in here that will nurture and inspire you as we close… [read more]

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๐Ÿ’› Finding Home in the Wild Edges of Being Human

๐„๐ฆ๐จ๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ ๐š๐ซ๐ž ๐ง ๐„๐ฆ๐จ๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ ๐š๐ซ๐ž ๐ง๐จ๐ญ ๐ฉ๐ซ๐จ๐›๐ฅ๐ž๐ฆ๐ฌ ๐ญ๐จ ๐›๐ž ๐Ÿ๐ข๐ฑ๐ž๐ ๐จ๐ซ ๐š๐ฏ๐จ๐ข๐๐ž๐โ€”theyโ€™re messages from different parts of you. Rather than labeling them as good or bad, approach them with curiosity. Each emotion is a part of your system trying to communicate something important about your needs. By listening with empathy to these parts, you deepen your understanding of yourself and build emotional intelligence. This practice of compassionate inquiry helps you strengthen your connection to your internal experience and empowers you to respond in a way that aligns with your true Self.
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Overthink Much? I have this mental ideal that is Overthink Much?

I have this mental ideal that is embedded in my brain that I would be able to wake up and move forward with all my intentions.  I can see the clear direction and simple steps. I can envision all the "results" and the relief I make up those results would bring. 

One of the things I'm teaching myself to do - is try to write more from a professional voice for you instead of blab in inner processing out on this little white pop-up box. 

How's that working, Alli?

Buahahahah.... all my sweet and striving little parts trying to hold my life closely to that ideal.  I sense the squirm of these parts in my body even when my "thinking" is clear.

I now know this to be a signal for me to slow down and meet those parts with calm and curiosity. First, I must get past one of my sneakiest and most powerful partsโ€”my "awareness" part. This is not Awareness from my core self. 
In IFS - we call these self-like parts. The distinction is that the awareness part carries the burden and tone of "You're doing it wrong."

I asked my clients to notice the part of them that is "mindful and self-aware." What are the words that the voice uses? What is its tone? 

Is it SELF-calm and compassionate, deeply connected? Or is it cognitive and managerial with a motive? 

OOOOF...sending sweet love and compassion to all my thinking, overthinking, and trying-to-get-it-right-for-some-imaginaryideal-parts, and to yours. 

These parts need our somatic connection and attunement. They do not need judgment and alienation. They are scared and holding ages of fear and pain. 

Hello, inner managers, and judgers, and thinkers.  I see you.  I am here for you.  I see your skills.  You have done nothing wrong.  No matter what you feel, you deserve more love, not less.  Let's just breathe together, and then you can share your fears and concerns.  I am here for you.  I will not leave you.
This sweet girl. Only a few taco Tuesdayโ€™s left This sweet girl. Only a few taco Tuesdayโ€™s left before they move across the state.
In the IFS community, we call triggers "trailheads In the IFS community, we call triggers "trailheads" or say, "This part of me is really activated." Identifying and caring for emotionally reactive parts gives us the opportunity to respond with intention rather than impulsively. By practicing emotional regulation and internal partswork, you can create space between stimulus and response, allowing for more thoughtful and grounded decision-making.
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For me, it was the fear I would disintegrate and b For me, it was the fear I would disintegrate and be insignificant.  For many, it's attached to conditional love.  IFS coaching helped me in places typical coaching couldn't.  It helped me compassionately understand and connect with these parts - and ya know what? They began to relax, build trust, and step back, leaving space for my natural creativity, grounded confidence, and clarity to lead in my work & life.  This is available to you.  #ifscoaching
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