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Achievement and Success, Authentic Leadership, Behind the Curtain, Breath is your BFF, Coaching, IFS Coaching, Internal Family Systems, Internal Family Systems Coaching, Leadership, Love, Managing Energy, Personal Growth, Self Leadership

4 Elements that Make Up Our Inner Systems In the Internal Family Systems Framework

August 5, 2023

  ๐Ÿฐ ๐—˜๐—น๐—ฒ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜๐˜€ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜ ๐— ๐—ฎ๐—ธ๐—ฒ ๐—จ๐—ฝ ๐—ข๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐—œ๐—ป๐—ป๐—ฒ๐—ฟ ๐—ฆ๐˜†๐˜€๐˜๐—ฒ๐—บ๐˜€ ๐—ถ๐—ป ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—œ๐—ป๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ป๐—ฎ๐—น ๐—™๐—ฎ๐—บ๐—ถ๐—น๐˜† ๐—ฆ๐˜†๐˜€๐˜๐—ฒ๐—บ๐˜€ ๐—™๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐˜„๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ธ  ๐Ÿ’› ๐—” ๐—ฐ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐—น ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ ๐—ฆ๐—˜๐—Ÿ๐—™ ๐Ÿ˜ข ๐—˜๐˜…๐—ถ๐—น๐—ฒ๐˜€ ๐Ÿ—ฃ๏ธ ๐—ฃ๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐˜๐—ผ๐—ฟ ๐— ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฎ๐—ด๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜€: ๐Ÿง‘โ€๐Ÿš’ ๐—ฃ๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ฐ๐˜๐—ผ๐—ฟ ๐—™๐—ถ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ณ๐—ถ๐—ด๐—ต๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐˜€ Today I’ll introduce the Core SELF. ๐Ÿ’› ๐—” ๐—ฐ๐—ฒ๐—ป๐˜๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐—น ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ ๐—ฆ๐—˜๐—Ÿ๐—™โ€“ SELF is the natural leader of… [read more]

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Art, Authentic Leadership, Client Stories, Conversations, Leadership, Life, Mindset and Thinking, Personal, Personal Growth, Podcast, Renewal, Spiritual Business, Wild Edges of Being Human, Writing Life

Cindy Ingram: Reinventing Your Business

July 2, 2023

Hello Humans, today we are jamming with fellow reinventor Cindy Ingram. Cindy has a book coming out later in the year and today we are going to talk a little bit more about reinvention.  Reinvention shows up on the outside but it’s usually because things… [read more]

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by Elyse Rich 
Allison holding a white piece of paper with the words calm, connected, compassionate, curious, confident, creative, clear and courageous on it.
Achievement and Success, Alignment, Authentic Leadership, Biz Secrets, Coaching, Emotions, IFS Coaching, Internal Family Systems, Internal Family Systems Coaching, Leadership, Life Coaching, Managing Energy, Mindset and Thinking, Personal Growth, Recovering Overachiever, Releasing Resistance, Self Leadership, Small Biz Support, Soul-Full Living, Soul-Full Success

Building Capacity for Deeper Work – Self Leadership

March 17, 2022

For years I have been good at connecting with YOU, while still protecting and disconnecting from me. (This strategy is ineffective). My nervous system was conditioned to assess threat- yours is tooโ€ฆ and because I didnโ€™t know internal connection and safety – I tried to… [read more]

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Achievement and Success, Alignment, Anxiety, Authentic Leadership, Breath is your BFF, Coaching, Compassionate Inquiry, Conversations, IFS Coaching, Inner Whisper, Internal Family Systems, Internal Family Systems Coaching, Leadership, Life Coaching, Personal Growth, Releasing Resistance, Sacred Journeys, Self Leadership

Connect with your SELF

March 13, 2022

Self Connection: Take a moment to pause and connect in your body, your heart….your breath, and listen for YOUR truth. We are taught to demonize and pathologize any “resistance, “block,” or difficult emotion – these are NOT problems to solve..they are opportunities for SELF-connection.  … [read more]

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I Am the Launch: No More Waiting

August 9, 2021

There are a million reasons to not go forward. There are reasons we can stop ourselves. An 8/8 update recording on the New Moon – August 8, 2021. I am going to put down my notes, drop into my body, connect with my heart and… [read more]

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Lovingly Managing My Brain

March 26, 2021

I first drew this self-portrait in 2013.   Today I see it as so much more than my just my creative mind. It represents so, so many parts of me… some Iโ€™m just getting to know.   As a coach and in my own growth,… [read more]

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๐Ÿ’› Finding Home in the Wild Edges of Being Human

๐„๐ฆ๐จ๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ ๐š๐ซ๐ž ๐ง ๐„๐ฆ๐จ๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ ๐š๐ซ๐ž ๐ง๐จ๐ญ ๐ฉ๐ซ๐จ๐›๐ฅ๐ž๐ฆ๐ฌ ๐ญ๐จ ๐›๐ž ๐Ÿ๐ข๐ฑ๐ž๐ ๐จ๐ซ ๐š๐ฏ๐จ๐ข๐๐ž๐โ€”theyโ€™re messages from different parts of you. Rather than labeling them as good or bad, approach them with curiosity. Each emotion is a part of your system trying to communicate something important about your needs. By listening with empathy to these parts, you deepen your understanding of yourself and build emotional intelligence. This practice of compassionate inquiry helps you strengthen your connection to your internal experience and empowers you to respond in a way that aligns with your true Self.
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Overthink Much? I have this mental ideal that is Overthink Much?

I have this mental ideal that is embedded in my brain that I would be able to wake up and move forward with all my intentions.  I can see the clear direction and simple steps. I can envision all the "results" and the relief I make up those results would bring. 

One of the things I'm teaching myself to do - is try to write more from a professional voice for you instead of blab in inner processing out on this little white pop-up box. 

How's that working, Alli?

Buahahahah.... all my sweet and striving little parts trying to hold my life closely to that ideal.  I sense the squirm of these parts in my body even when my "thinking" is clear.

I now know this to be a signal for me to slow down and meet those parts with calm and curiosity. First, I must get past one of my sneakiest and most powerful partsโ€”my "awareness" part. This is not Awareness from my core self. 
In IFS - we call these self-like parts. The distinction is that the awareness part carries the burden and tone of "You're doing it wrong."

I asked my clients to notice the part of them that is "mindful and self-aware." What are the words that the voice uses? What is its tone? 

Is it SELF-calm and compassionate, deeply connected? Or is it cognitive and managerial with a motive? 

OOOOF...sending sweet love and compassion to all my thinking, overthinking, and trying-to-get-it-right-for-some-imaginaryideal-parts, and to yours. 

These parts need our somatic connection and attunement. They do not need judgment and alienation. They are scared and holding ages of fear and pain. 

Hello, inner managers, and judgers, and thinkers.  I see you.  I am here for you.  I see your skills.  You have done nothing wrong.  No matter what you feel, you deserve more love, not less.  Let's just breathe together, and then you can share your fears and concerns.  I am here for you.  I will not leave you.
This sweet girl. Only a few taco Tuesdayโ€™s left This sweet girl. Only a few taco Tuesdayโ€™s left before they move across the state.
In the IFS community, we call triggers "trailheads In the IFS community, we call triggers "trailheads" or say, "This part of me is really activated." Identifying and caring for emotionally reactive parts gives us the opportunity to respond with intention rather than impulsively. By practicing emotional regulation and internal partswork, you can create space between stimulus and response, allowing for more thoughtful and grounded decision-making.
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For me, it was the fear I would disintegrate and b For me, it was the fear I would disintegrate and be insignificant.  For many, it's attached to conditional love.  IFS coaching helped me in places typical coaching couldn't.  It helped me compassionately understand and connect with these parts - and ya know what? They began to relax, build trust, and step back, leaving space for my natural creativity, grounded confidence, and clarity to lead in my work & life.  This is available to you.  #ifscoaching
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