Allison Crow

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Achievement and Success, Alignment, Biz Secrets, Client Stories, Coaching, FB Live, Life Coaching, Mindset and Thinking, Prosperous Coach, Small Biz Support, Soul-Full Living, Soul-Full Success

Of all the coaching modalities I use – this one blows my client’s minds the most.

May 17, 2018

Of all the coaching modalities I use – this one blows my client’s minds the most. Β  Connect on Facebook Share Free Share Your Heart Show Your Work Facebook Community Soulies Self-Leadership Coaching Membership

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Achievement and Success, Alignment, FB Live, Money, Releasing Resistance, Small Biz Support, Soul-Full Success

You can’t make money with a stick up your a$$ and other truths.

January 11, 2018

You can’t make money with a stick up your a$$ and other truths about being clenched.  Connect on Facebook Share Free Share Your Heart Show Your Work Facebook Community Soulies Self-Leadership Coaching Membership

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Alignment, Behind the Curtain, Mindset and Thinking, Personal, Purpose, Releasing Resistance, Soul-Full Living

Creating a New Relationship with My Phone

January 8, 2018

It may as well be attached to the end of my arm.  That iDevice – with a battery case. The one with all the apps and all my “connection” to everything.  Yes, I’m overly attached to my device.  And my body is screaming at me to… [read more]

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Achievement and Success, Alignment, Coaching, FB Live, Mindset and Thinking

Who do you have to be: And Something my coach shared with me that I have to pass on.

January 4, 2018

Who do you have to be: And something my coach shared with me that I have to pass on. Connect on Facebook Share Free Share Your Heart Show Your Work Facebook Community Soulies Self-Leadership Coaching Membership

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BLBW EP#24: Both/And: Allowing Ourselves to Live in the Paradox of Life

October 23, 2017

When we limit ourselves to being EITHER/OR in life…. we miss out on the possibility of BOTH/AND.  In this episode, we look deeper at living in the paradox of life.  This subtle mindset shift opened up a whole new world of possibility.  I’d love to hear… [read more]

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Alignment, Authentic Leadership, Personal, Releasing Resistance

Both/And

October 10, 2017

both/and   This is the world we live in. This is the world I create. One where BOTH/AND exist.   The news is BOTH tragic & devastating – a friend dies, a beloved ranch burned to the ground, and a young boy takes his own… [read more]

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Alignment, Anxiety, Authentic Leadership, Love, Mindset and Thinking

My Excruciating Need For Agreement

September 26, 2017

I have become keenly aware lately, the pang of my ego and its need for agreement. It is as if my ego is peeling away from my spirit that allows us to strongly disagree, believe very differently, and have extremely different core values. I notice… [read more]

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Achievement and Success, Alignment, Biz Secrets, Managing Energy, Small Biz Support, Soul-Work, Spiritual Business

10 Reasons to Fu#K the Hustle and ALIGN Instead

August 14, 2017

Get in alignment and then…. ? And then the work just flows and the connections are made.Β  ? And then you keep cortisol from slowly and silently killing you.Β  ? And then you see behind the veil- you just KnOW shit instead of worrying. ?… [read more]

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πŸ’›IFS coaching for life/biz
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πŸ’› Finding Home in the Wild Edges of Being Human

𝐄𝐦𝐨𝐭𝐒𝐨𝐧𝐬 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐧 𝐄𝐦𝐨𝐭𝐒𝐨𝐧𝐬 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐛π₯𝐞𝐦𝐬 𝐭𝐨 π›πž 𝐟𝐒𝐱𝐞𝐝 𝐨𝐫 πšπ―π¨π’ππžπβ€”they’re messages from different parts of you. Rather than labeling them as good or bad, approach them with curiosity. Each emotion is a part of your system trying to communicate something important about your needs. By listening with empathy to these parts, you deepen your understanding of yourself and build emotional intelligence. This practice of compassionate inquiry helps you strengthen your connection to your internal experience and empowers you to respond in a way that aligns with your true Self.
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Overthink Much? I have this mental ideal that is Overthink Much?

I have this mental ideal that is embedded in my brain that I would be able to wake up and move forward with all my intentions.  I can see the clear direction and simple steps. I can envision all the "results" and the relief I make up those results would bring. 

One of the things I'm teaching myself to do - is try to write more from a professional voice for you instead of blab in inner processing out on this little white pop-up box. 

How's that working, Alli?

Buahahahah.... all my sweet and striving little parts trying to hold my life closely to that ideal.  I sense the squirm of these parts in my body even when my "thinking" is clear.

I now know this to be a signal for me to slow down and meet those parts with calm and curiosity. First, I must get past one of my sneakiest and most powerful partsβ€”my "awareness" part. This is not Awareness from my core self. 
In IFS - we call these self-like parts. The distinction is that the awareness part carries the burden and tone of "You're doing it wrong."

I asked my clients to notice the part of them that is "mindful and self-aware." What are the words that the voice uses? What is its tone? 

Is it SELF-calm and compassionate, deeply connected? Or is it cognitive and managerial with a motive? 

OOOOF...sending sweet love and compassion to all my thinking, overthinking, and trying-to-get-it-right-for-some-imaginaryideal-parts, and to yours. 

These parts need our somatic connection and attunement. They do not need judgment and alienation. They are scared and holding ages of fear and pain. 

Hello, inner managers, and judgers, and thinkers.  I see you.  I am here for you.  I see your skills.  You have done nothing wrong.  No matter what you feel, you deserve more love, not less.  Let's just breathe together, and then you can share your fears and concerns.  I am here for you.  I will not leave you.
This sweet girl. Only a few taco Tuesday’s left This sweet girl. Only a few taco Tuesday’s left before they move across the state.
In the IFS community, we call triggers "trailheads In the IFS community, we call triggers "trailheads" or say, "This part of me is really activated." Identifying and caring for emotionally reactive parts gives us the opportunity to respond with intention rather than impulsively. By practicing emotional regulation and internal partswork, you can create space between stimulus and response, allowing for more thoughtful and grounded decision-making.
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For me, it was the fear I would disintegrate and b For me, it was the fear I would disintegrate and be insignificant.  For many, it's attached to conditional love.  IFS coaching helped me in places typical coaching couldn't.  It helped me compassionately understand and connect with these parts - and ya know what? They began to relax, build trust, and step back, leaving space for my natural creativity, grounded confidence, and clarity to lead in my work & life.  This is available to you.  #ifscoaching
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