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Achievement and Success, Biz Secrets, Breath is your BFF, Follow & Feel Your Heart, Online Business, Recovering Overachiever, Renewal, Small Biz Support, Soul-Work, The Be Team

How to NOT Struggle so Hard in Your Share Your Heart Show Your Work Biz

August 22, 2016

How to energize your Share Your Heart Show Your Work Business:   Everything we do and be exists in the spiritual and cosmic realm- the infinite spiral of Love. The Universe/The Divine/God is conspiring FOR you. We are spiritual beings having a human experience. Because… [read more]

by allisoncrow 
Achievement and Success, Biz Secrets, Breath is your BFF, Managing Energy, Personal, Personal Growth, Recovering Overachiever, Releasing Resistance, Renewal, Uncategorized

What to Do When You Want to Quit

August 22, 2016

Ok. ‪#‎RealLifePost‬. There are lots of days when I think I want to quit. I’ve been working since I was 15 and self employed since 2003. I’m a recovering overachiever and last fall I was diagnosed w/ hypothyroidism and adrenal fatigue. Maybe that was part… [read more]

by allisoncrow 
Achievement and Success, Biz Secrets, Coaching, Everyday Magic, List, Money, Online Business, Prosperous Coach, Small Biz Support, Soul-Work, Uncategorized

A Recipe for Success – or How to Make it as a Coach.

October 14, 2015

I can’t want it more than my clients or students do. Stacy Nelson and I were having our usual morning chat. Really, it isn’t HARD… But it is Work. Lots of work. Play the long game. Do the work Do the work more. Don’t quit…. [read more]

by allisoncrow 
Achievement and Success, Biz Secrets, Coaching, Life Coaching, My Mentors, Small Biz Support, Uncategorized, Video

Coaches, You Don’t Need No Stinkin Niche

August 19, 2015

  Let me know what you think!                

by allisoncrow 
Alignment, Biz Secrets, Coaching, Follow & Feel Your Heart, Mindset and Thinking, Uncategorized

Pursuing What Sets Your Soul On Fire 

July 13, 2015

Checking in with Spirit and my Divine Business Manager today, the message to day was to allow ourselves to serve not JUST our own higher good…or JUST the higher good of all…but to serve BOTH the higher good of all and our own higher good…. [read more]

by allisoncrow 
Biz Secrets, Coaching, Follow & Feel Your Heart, HEART, Life Coaching, List, Personal, Small Biz Support, Soul-Full Living, Soul-Work, Uncategorized

PSA for Coaches

January 20, 2015

PSA: Coaches…stop it with the bullshit. Stop fishing with this wide net with prescribed copy disguised as a personal message. Stop giving me free shit that I don’t need. Do not try to entice me with your 6 figure promise when you have no clue… [read more]

by allisoncrow 
Biz Secrets, Follow & Feel Your Heart, Managing Energy, Uncategorized

In an Ebb? The Flow Always Comes Back

December 27, 2014

Following Spirit and your Intuition in ALL areas of your life can be tricky….and very much so in business. It is so tempting to DO DO DO DO. I confess, my mind has been racing about a zillion things – frankly, SHOULDING all over myself…. [read more]

by allisoncrow 
Alignment, Biz Secrets, Coaching, Follow & Feel Your Heart, Life Coaching, Ordinary Courage, Personal, Small Biz Support, Uncategorized

Sacred Contracts or Sales BS

November 12, 2014

Part of my journey over the last 9 years as a professional coach has been learning and honing my way…MY WAY….. I was a “sales and NLP” coach for 4 years and know all the tactics and rules. But I’m not looking for conversion…. I’m… [read more]

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💛 Finding Home in the Wild Edges of Being Human

𝐄𝐦𝐨𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐧 𝐄𝐦𝐨𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐛𝐥𝐞𝐦𝐬 𝐭𝐨 𝐛𝐞 𝐟𝐢𝐱𝐞𝐝 𝐨𝐫 𝐚𝐯𝐨𝐢𝐝𝐞𝐝—they’re messages from different parts of you. Rather than labeling them as good or bad, approach them with curiosity. Each emotion is a part of your system trying to communicate something important about your needs. By listening with empathy to these parts, you deepen your understanding of yourself and build emotional intelligence. This practice of compassionate inquiry helps you strengthen your connection to your internal experience and empowers you to respond in a way that aligns with your true Self.
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Overthink Much? I have this mental ideal that is Overthink Much?

I have this mental ideal that is embedded in my brain that I would be able to wake up and move forward with all my intentions.  I can see the clear direction and simple steps. I can envision all the "results" and the relief I make up those results would bring. 

One of the things I'm teaching myself to do - is try to write more from a professional voice for you instead of blab in inner processing out on this little white pop-up box. 

How's that working, Alli?

Buahahahah.... all my sweet and striving little parts trying to hold my life closely to that ideal.  I sense the squirm of these parts in my body even when my "thinking" is clear.

I now know this to be a signal for me to slow down and meet those parts with calm and curiosity. First, I must get past one of my sneakiest and most powerful parts—my "awareness" part. This is not Awareness from my core self. 
In IFS - we call these self-like parts. The distinction is that the awareness part carries the burden and tone of "You're doing it wrong."

I asked my clients to notice the part of them that is "mindful and self-aware." What are the words that the voice uses? What is its tone? 

Is it SELF-calm and compassionate, deeply connected? Or is it cognitive and managerial with a motive? 

OOOOF...sending sweet love and compassion to all my thinking, overthinking, and trying-to-get-it-right-for-some-imaginaryideal-parts, and to yours. 

These parts need our somatic connection and attunement. They do not need judgment and alienation. They are scared and holding ages of fear and pain. 

Hello, inner managers, and judgers, and thinkers.  I see you.  I am here for you.  I see your skills.  You have done nothing wrong.  No matter what you feel, you deserve more love, not less.  Let's just breathe together, and then you can share your fears and concerns.  I am here for you.  I will not leave you.
This sweet girl. Only a few taco Tuesday’s left This sweet girl. Only a few taco Tuesday’s left before they move across the state.
In the IFS community, we call triggers "trailheads In the IFS community, we call triggers "trailheads" or say, "This part of me is really activated." Identifying and caring for emotionally reactive parts gives us the opportunity to respond with intention rather than impulsively. By practicing emotional regulation and internal partswork, you can create space between stimulus and response, allowing for more thoughtful and grounded decision-making.
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For me, it was the fear I would disintegrate and b For me, it was the fear I would disintegrate and be insignificant.  For many, it's attached to conditional love.  IFS coaching helped me in places typical coaching couldn't.  It helped me compassionately understand and connect with these parts - and ya know what? They began to relax, build trust, and step back, leaving space for my natural creativity, grounded confidence, and clarity to lead in my work & life.  This is available to you.  #ifscoaching
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