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Lessons Learned from Gabor Mate & Compassionate Inquiry

June 30, 2024

Welcome back! In today’s episode, I delve into lessons Iโ€™ve learned from one of my favorite teachers and approaches ~ Gabor Matรฉ and Compassionate Inquiry.  I explore his method as a facilitator, the importance of gaining consent, his views on addiction as attempts to solve… [read more]

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Authentic Leadership, Client Stories, Coaching, Conversations, Emotions, Life, Life Coaching, Personal, Personal Growth, Podcast, Self Compassion, Unarmored, Wild Edges of Being Human

Beautiful & Miserable: Life is not The Container Store

March 12, 2023

Ah, the imperfection of the human experience. You are not doing it wrong if it feels hard, or bad, or disconnected.  You are not screwing up your kids, you didnโ€™t marry the wrong person, and your business is not destined for failure. I see so… [read more]

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by Elyse Rich 
Authentic Leadership, Compassionate Inquiry, Conversations, Emotions, IFS Coaching, Life, Life Coaching, Personal, Personal Growth, Podcast, Renewal, Self Compassion, Unarmored, Wild Edges of Being Human

How to Recover after a Difficult Season

March 5, 2023

This is the wild edge of being human, a podcast for business owners. I wanna talk about recovering from difficult seasons and transitioning out of a difficult season, and wouldn’t it be nice if just one day the hard stopped and the ease started again?… [read more]

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Care of the Soul, Compassionate Inquiry, Depression, Love, Personal, Releasing Resistance, Renewal, Sacred Journeys, Self Compassion, Self Leadership, Source, Spirituality, Wild Edges of Being Human

I tossed an entire prayer book into the trash

December 19, 2022

I just tossed an entire book into the recycle bin. So much for that prayerful meditation. I opened a prayer book to a random page – and it landed on a prayer for “emotional distress.” And the line that pissed me off was this: “I… [read more]

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Achievement and Success, Alignment, Biz Secrets, Coaching, IFS Coaching, Leadership, Managing Energy, Mindset and Thinking, Online Business, Self Leadership, Small Biz Support, Soul-Full Success, Spiritual Business

Monday Morning Check In: BEING

November 14, 2022

Happy Monday. Let’s start in the upper left section today. This assumes your nervous system is in a calm and regulated state. If not, then that becomes priority #1. Nervous system regulation is primary. From that space, we can be aware and imagine our ๐—•๐—˜๐—œ๐—ก๐—š… [read more]

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Achievement and Success, Anxiety, Authentic Leadership, Compassionate Inquiry, Depression, Emotions, IFS Coaching, Internal Family Systems Coaching, Leadership, Life Coaching, Mindset and Thinking, Ordinary Courage, Recovering Overachiever, Releasing Resistance, Self Compassion, Self Leadership, Soul-Full Success, Wild Edges of Being Human

For my fellow leaders who are highly sensitive and overthink often.

November 4, 2022

Sensitivity and Overthinking. These two qualities are deep in the cells in my body and way of being. They are not only my biggest struggles. They are also my truly greatest strengths.     They do not always fit nicely in a โ€œcontained & performative culture.โ€ … [read more]

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Road Riff: The Wild Edge Of Being Human

October 23, 2022

Let’s talk about The Wild Edge Of Being Human. Hello, soul-full listeners. My name is Allison Crow and I’m just gonna hop into it. Today I’m gonna share a little bit about the zeitgeist of The Wild Edge of Being Human but first I wanna… [read more]

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I Believe You.

October 13, 2022

Today is a new day. Yesterday was low, low, lowโ€ฆ.. grateful for my compassionate friend Heather and compassionate nurse Bethany. I spent half the day at the Heart Hospital having some tests (planned, not an emergency).   Hereโ€™s what I noticed about being in the… [read more]

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๐„๐ฆ๐จ๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ ๐š๐ซ๐ž ๐ง ๐„๐ฆ๐จ๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ ๐š๐ซ๐ž ๐ง๐จ๐ญ ๐ฉ๐ซ๐จ๐›๐ฅ๐ž๐ฆ๐ฌ ๐ญ๐จ ๐›๐ž ๐Ÿ๐ข๐ฑ๐ž๐ ๐จ๐ซ ๐š๐ฏ๐จ๐ข๐๐ž๐โ€”theyโ€™re messages from different parts of you. Rather than labeling them as good or bad, approach them with curiosity. Each emotion is a part of your system trying to communicate something important about your needs. By listening with empathy to these parts, you deepen your understanding of yourself and build emotional intelligence. This practice of compassionate inquiry helps you strengthen your connection to your internal experience and empowers you to respond in a way that aligns with your true Self.
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Overthink Much? I have this mental ideal that is Overthink Much?

I have this mental ideal that is embedded in my brain that I would be able to wake up and move forward with all my intentions.  I can see the clear direction and simple steps. I can envision all the "results" and the relief I make up those results would bring. 

One of the things I'm teaching myself to do - is try to write more from a professional voice for you instead of blab in inner processing out on this little white pop-up box. 

How's that working, Alli?

Buahahahah.... all my sweet and striving little parts trying to hold my life closely to that ideal.  I sense the squirm of these parts in my body even when my "thinking" is clear.

I now know this to be a signal for me to slow down and meet those parts with calm and curiosity. First, I must get past one of my sneakiest and most powerful partsโ€”my "awareness" part. This is not Awareness from my core self. 
In IFS - we call these self-like parts. The distinction is that the awareness part carries the burden and tone of "You're doing it wrong."

I asked my clients to notice the part of them that is "mindful and self-aware." What are the words that the voice uses? What is its tone? 

Is it SELF-calm and compassionate, deeply connected? Or is it cognitive and managerial with a motive? 

OOOOF...sending sweet love and compassion to all my thinking, overthinking, and trying-to-get-it-right-for-some-imaginaryideal-parts, and to yours. 

These parts need our somatic connection and attunement. They do not need judgment and alienation. They are scared and holding ages of fear and pain. 

Hello, inner managers, and judgers, and thinkers.  I see you.  I am here for you.  I see your skills.  You have done nothing wrong.  No matter what you feel, you deserve more love, not less.  Let's just breathe together, and then you can share your fears and concerns.  I am here for you.  I will not leave you.
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In the IFS community, we call triggers "trailheads In the IFS community, we call triggers "trailheads" or say, "This part of me is really activated." Identifying and caring for emotionally reactive parts gives us the opportunity to respond with intention rather than impulsively. By practicing emotional regulation and internal partswork, you can create space between stimulus and response, allowing for more thoughtful and grounded decision-making.
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For me, it was the fear I would disintegrate and b For me, it was the fear I would disintegrate and be insignificant.  For many, it's attached to conditional love.  IFS coaching helped me in places typical coaching couldn't.  It helped me compassionately understand and connect with these parts - and ya know what? They began to relax, build trust, and step back, leaving space for my natural creativity, grounded confidence, and clarity to lead in my work & life.  This is available to you.  #ifscoaching
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