Allison Crow

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Art, Follow & Feel Your Heart, HEART, Mindset and Thinking, Ordinary Courage, Personal Growth, Releasing Resistance, Uncategorized

The Heart Can Hold It All

May 20, 2016

I’ve always loved hearts. ❤️ In my room at my mom and dad’s house is a collection of heart shaped boxes that were given to me over the years for my birthday…. February…. A week from Valentines. I had a rainbow heart mobile over my… [read more]

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Breath is your BFF, FB Live, Follow & Feel Your Heart, HEART, Personal, Releasing Resistance, The Be Team, Uncategorized, Video

What I don’t want you to know about me…. And a 1 card reading for us all. #wearyOh….and I’m fully committed to walking the BE team path. If you wanna walk with me ….www.BETEAM.CLUB

April 14, 2016

What I don’t want you to know about me…. And a 1 card reading for us all. #weary Oh….and I’m fully committed to walking the BE team path. If you wanna walk with me ….www.BETEAM.CLUB Connect on Facebook Share Free Share Your Heart Show Your… [read more]

by allisoncrow 
Achievement and Success, Alignment, Art, Coaching, Follow & Feel Your Heart, Fun, HEART, Managing Energy, Personal, Personal Growth, Purpose, Recovering Overachiever, Releasing Resistance, Self Love Series, The Be Team, The Body Always Knows, Transformation, Uncategorized

The Pressure to Always Be Nexting

April 14, 2016

Everywhere I look there is the pressure to get to the NEXT level. Next this, next that.  No celebration, move on…bigger bigger bigger. Hustle Hustle Hustle. How does that make your body feel? Seriously, check in….feel, is there lightness and excitement, or is there constriction… [read more]

by allisoncrow 
Achievement and Success, Alignment, Energetic Work, Everyday Magic, Inner Whisper, Meditation, Releasing Resistance, Renewal, Uncategorized

Releasing 2015- A Reading and Message For Us All

December 29, 2015

This week, I have set aside to do the energetics and visioning for releasing 2015 and creating and stepping into 2016.  Yesterday I was drawn to pull 3 cards with the intention of “What did we need to know, what final lessons did 2015 have… [read more]

by allisoncrow 
Alignment, Conversations, Follow & Feel Your Heart, HEART, Inner Whisper, Life Coaching, Managing Energy, Personal, Releasing Resistance, Renewal, Uncategorized

A Blessing for One Who is Exhausted 

November 8, 2015

Last night I dreamt of the poem the Jeffrey Rutstein read. I wanted to share it with you this morning. A Blessing for One Who is Exhausted? –by John O’Donohue (Jul 26, 2011) When the rhythm of the heart becomes hectic, Time takes on the… [read more]

by allisoncrow 
Mindset and Thinking, Personal Growth, Releasing Resistance, Uncategorized

Unfucking Up My Thinking

June 5, 2015

Only your thinking can fuck up your life. Only your thinking can bless your life. I’m working on releasing my thinking that some people are fucked up because it makes me feel tight and angry and that is stealing my joy. For me this is… [read more]

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Client Stories, Coaching, Online Business, Personal, Releasing Resistance, Self Love Series, Small Biz Support, Soul-Full Living, Soul-Work, Uncategorized

I’m sharing a Secret Story About Myself so You Don’t Do What I Did

April 24, 2015

  How will you get your Light out in to the world? How will you share YOU!  Go Shine StarHeart, Go Shine!  

by allisoncrow 
HEART, Life Coaching, Love, Managing Energy, Personal, Personal Growth, Releasing Resistance, Sacred Journeys, Soul-Full Living, Transformation, Uncategorized

I Once Was a Prostitute and I’ll bet You’ve Been One Too.

February 22, 2015

No this post won’t be about sex, but it will be about my time as a prostitute and how I climbed out of that hole and found the place I am in now. While I certainly wouldn’t accuse you, I would bet that a time… [read more]

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𝐄𝐦𝐨𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐧 𝐄𝐦𝐨𝐭𝐢𝐨𝐧𝐬 𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐧𝐨𝐭 𝐩𝐫𝐨𝐛𝐥𝐞𝐦𝐬 𝐭𝐨 𝐛𝐞 𝐟𝐢𝐱𝐞𝐝 𝐨𝐫 𝐚𝐯𝐨𝐢𝐝𝐞𝐝—they’re messages from different parts of you. Rather than labeling them as good or bad, approach them with curiosity. Each emotion is a part of your system trying to communicate something important about your needs. By listening with empathy to these parts, you deepen your understanding of yourself and build emotional intelligence. This practice of compassionate inquiry helps you strengthen your connection to your internal experience and empowers you to respond in a way that aligns with your true Self.
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Overthink Much? I have this mental ideal that is Overthink Much?

I have this mental ideal that is embedded in my brain that I would be able to wake up and move forward with all my intentions.  I can see the clear direction and simple steps. I can envision all the "results" and the relief I make up those results would bring. 

One of the things I'm teaching myself to do - is try to write more from a professional voice for you instead of blab in inner processing out on this little white pop-up box. 

How's that working, Alli?

Buahahahah.... all my sweet and striving little parts trying to hold my life closely to that ideal.  I sense the squirm of these parts in my body even when my "thinking" is clear.

I now know this to be a signal for me to slow down and meet those parts with calm and curiosity. First, I must get past one of my sneakiest and most powerful parts—my "awareness" part. This is not Awareness from my core self. 
In IFS - we call these self-like parts. The distinction is that the awareness part carries the burden and tone of "You're doing it wrong."

I asked my clients to notice the part of them that is "mindful and self-aware." What are the words that the voice uses? What is its tone? 

Is it SELF-calm and compassionate, deeply connected? Or is it cognitive and managerial with a motive? 

OOOOF...sending sweet love and compassion to all my thinking, overthinking, and trying-to-get-it-right-for-some-imaginaryideal-parts, and to yours. 

These parts need our somatic connection and attunement. They do not need judgment and alienation. They are scared and holding ages of fear and pain. 

Hello, inner managers, and judgers, and thinkers.  I see you.  I am here for you.  I see your skills.  You have done nothing wrong.  No matter what you feel, you deserve more love, not less.  Let's just breathe together, and then you can share your fears and concerns.  I am here for you.  I will not leave you.
This sweet girl. Only a few taco Tuesday’s left This sweet girl. Only a few taco Tuesday’s left before they move across the state.
In the IFS community, we call triggers "trailheads In the IFS community, we call triggers "trailheads" or say, "This part of me is really activated." Identifying and caring for emotionally reactive parts gives us the opportunity to respond with intention rather than impulsively. By practicing emotional regulation and internal partswork, you can create space between stimulus and response, allowing for more thoughtful and grounded decision-making.
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For me, it was the fear I would disintegrate and b For me, it was the fear I would disintegrate and be insignificant.  For many, it's attached to conditional love.  IFS coaching helped me in places typical coaching couldn't.  It helped me compassionately understand and connect with these parts - and ya know what? They began to relax, build trust, and step back, leaving space for my natural creativity, grounded confidence, and clarity to lead in my work & life.  This is available to you.  #ifscoaching
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