Allison Crow

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Alignment, Authentic Leadership, Boundaries, IFS Coaching, Life Coaching, List, Managing Energy, Mindset and Thinking, Ordinary Courage, Personal Growth, Recovering Overachiever, Recovering People Pleaser, Self Leadership, Self Love Series, Soul-Full Living, Wild Edges of Being Human

The Problem with “BE LOVE” for Recovering People Pleasers

February 8, 2023

The Problem with “BE LOVE” for Recovering People Pleasers   Photos: The ACA Bill of Rights. The photos are of my handwritten version, and you can find the pdf version on the ACA website. The second photo is my visual reminder to be clear on… [read more]

by allisoncrow 
Authentic Leadership, Better Life Better Work Show, Coaching, Conversations, Leadership, Life, Life Coaching, List, Mindset and Thinking, Money, Personal, Personal Growth, Podcast, Self Leadership

Business Focus Check and an Excitement List

December 12, 2021

Hello Soul-Full business owners. There are all kinds of business owners out there and as long as people are ethical, I don’t think there’s anything wrong with the different kinds of business owners. I want to share an insight, especially for you heart centered business… [read more]

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Achievement and Success, Coaching, Life Coaching, List, Mindset and Thinking, Personal Growth, Remember, Small Biz Support, Soul-Full Success, Spiritual Business

10 Lessons From Your Favorite Life Coach

May 27, 2018

10 Lessons from your favorite life coach: 1. No more muggling. You keep muggling – yet you are a wizard…with all the resourcefulness and skills of a Divine Magician…yet you MUGGLE. STOP. REMEMBER You are a POWERFUL AND ABLE mofo. 2. You are not here… [read more]

by allisoncrow 
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Feed Your Brain

March 26, 2017

  Podcasts are a delicious brain food. All day long you are filling your brain with info- by choice or not. Take some time to feed your brain good stuff.ย [bctt tweet=”All day long you are filling your brain with info- by choice or not.Take time… [read more]

by allisoncrow 
Achievement and Success, Biz Secrets, Coaching, Everyday Magic, List, Money, Online Business, Prosperous Coach, Small Biz Support, Soul-Work, Uncategorized

A Recipe for Success – or How to Make it as a Coach.

October 14, 2015

I can’t want it more than my clients or students do. Stacy Nelson and I were having our usual morning chat. Really, it isn’t HARD… But it is Work. Lots of work. Play the long game. Do the work Do the work more. Don’t quit…. [read more]

by allisoncrow 
Biz Secrets, Coaching, Follow & Feel Your Heart, HEART, Life Coaching, List, Personal, Small Biz Support, Soul-Full Living, Soul-Work, Uncategorized

PSA for Coaches

January 20, 2015

PSA: Coaches…stop it with the bullshit. Stop fishing with this wide net with prescribed copy disguised as a personal message. Stop giving me free shit that I don’t need. Do not try to entice me with your 6 figure promise when you have no clue… [read more]

by allisoncrow 
Follow & Feel Your Heart, List, Soul-Full Living, Source, Uncategorized

Dusting off Desire and Making BOLD Declarations

November 18, 2014

[et_pb_section admin_label=”section”][et_pb_row admin_label=”row”][et_pb_column type=”4_4″][et_pb_text admin_label=”Text”] DESIRE: When did we give it up…when did we allow it to get dusty and feel ashamed of what we desire. Ok I guess I could own that….when did I allow desire to get dusty? What is it that we… [read more]

by allisoncrow 
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The Blessing I Got on the Day Maya Angelou Died

May 29, 2014

Dr. Maya Angelou crossed over the veil yesterday. ย As I watch the various posts and news articles cross my feed, I just soaked her love and wisdom in. ย I took for granted that she would not just always be there. ย And now that she is… [read more]

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๐Ÿ’›IFS coaching for life/biz
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๐Ÿ’› Finding Home in the Wild Edges of Being Human

๐„๐ฆ๐จ๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ ๐š๐ซ๐ž ๐ง ๐„๐ฆ๐จ๐ญ๐ข๐จ๐ง๐ฌ ๐š๐ซ๐ž ๐ง๐จ๐ญ ๐ฉ๐ซ๐จ๐›๐ฅ๐ž๐ฆ๐ฌ ๐ญ๐จ ๐›๐ž ๐Ÿ๐ข๐ฑ๐ž๐ ๐จ๐ซ ๐š๐ฏ๐จ๐ข๐๐ž๐โ€”theyโ€™re messages from different parts of you. Rather than labeling them as good or bad, approach them with curiosity. Each emotion is a part of your system trying to communicate something important about your needs. By listening with empathy to these parts, you deepen your understanding of yourself and build emotional intelligence. This practice of compassionate inquiry helps you strengthen your connection to your internal experience and empowers you to respond in a way that aligns with your true Self.
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Overthink Much? I have this mental ideal that is Overthink Much?

I have this mental ideal that is embedded in my brain that I would be able to wake up and move forward with all my intentions.  I can see the clear direction and simple steps. I can envision all the "results" and the relief I make up those results would bring. 

One of the things I'm teaching myself to do - is try to write more from a professional voice for you instead of blab in inner processing out on this little white pop-up box. 

How's that working, Alli?

Buahahahah.... all my sweet and striving little parts trying to hold my life closely to that ideal.  I sense the squirm of these parts in my body even when my "thinking" is clear.

I now know this to be a signal for me to slow down and meet those parts with calm and curiosity. First, I must get past one of my sneakiest and most powerful partsโ€”my "awareness" part. This is not Awareness from my core self. 
In IFS - we call these self-like parts. The distinction is that the awareness part carries the burden and tone of "You're doing it wrong."

I asked my clients to notice the part of them that is "mindful and self-aware." What are the words that the voice uses? What is its tone? 

Is it SELF-calm and compassionate, deeply connected? Or is it cognitive and managerial with a motive? 

OOOOF...sending sweet love and compassion to all my thinking, overthinking, and trying-to-get-it-right-for-some-imaginaryideal-parts, and to yours. 

These parts need our somatic connection and attunement. They do not need judgment and alienation. They are scared and holding ages of fear and pain. 

Hello, inner managers, and judgers, and thinkers.  I see you.  I am here for you.  I see your skills.  You have done nothing wrong.  No matter what you feel, you deserve more love, not less.  Let's just breathe together, and then you can share your fears and concerns.  I am here for you.  I will not leave you.
This sweet girl. Only a few taco Tuesdayโ€™s left This sweet girl. Only a few taco Tuesdayโ€™s left before they move across the state.
In the IFS community, we call triggers "trailheads In the IFS community, we call triggers "trailheads" or say, "This part of me is really activated." Identifying and caring for emotionally reactive parts gives us the opportunity to respond with intention rather than impulsively. By practicing emotional regulation and internal partswork, you can create space between stimulus and response, allowing for more thoughtful and grounded decision-making.
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For me, it was the fear I would disintegrate and b For me, it was the fear I would disintegrate and be insignificant.  For many, it's attached to conditional love.  IFS coaching helped me in places typical coaching couldn't.  It helped me compassionately understand and connect with these parts - and ya know what? They began to relax, build trust, and step back, leaving space for my natural creativity, grounded confidence, and clarity to lead in my work & life.  This is available to you.  #ifscoaching
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